I think part of the problem stems from the very thing that has made OcUK such a success - the community. Back when I joined (6 years ago) very few people knew each other off the forums, but over time, through various meets over the years, there is a large community here that extends to real friendship off the forums. If something happens to someone on here, there is often a real life friend who is also a member who will find out and be annoyed by it. This has happened several times over the years, and will continue to happen unless the community is completely destroyed, which I think would be a huge loss to the forums.