lads - would you feel cheated on if your missus...

MossyUK · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:49

if your missus went on her hen night, and in a drunken state (but coherent) got off with another lad - kissing only, but was being felt up numerous times by numerous males (and not just her ass and boobies) but didnt go any further with that either (ie just a cheeky feel), would you consider that to be cheating?

Fortunately this isnt my missus (hence the jovial tone), but its my gf's best mate. Personally I consider this to be cheating but is it a disciplinary offence, or a Alan Sugar style firing?

A2Z · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:51

wouldnt say its cheating, but definitely not right, i sure would not be happy with her, hen night or not, not an excuse

Helium_Junkie · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:52

I dont know, but could you tell me what bars she hangs out in?

hehe

shifty_uk · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:52

Doubt I'd be a happy chap if a gf of mine done that.

divine` · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:54

Don't think i'd be entirely happy to find out my wife to be had quite happily let several random blokes grope her just before our wedding day.

Immsy · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:54

I would be very unhappy with that too. Drink is not an excuse.

Tom0 · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:56

Ye, fair play, I'd be well miffed.

Scuzi · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:56

If my girlfriend ever acted like such a disgusting uncouth harlot I would not be one bit pleased. I'd rather be single than spend time with a ****.

Glaucus · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:57

A2Z said:
wouldnt say its cheating,

You wouldn't call kissing cheating :eek:

ots3go · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:57

Scuzi said:
If my girlfriend ever acted like such a disgusting uncouth harlot I would not be one bit pleased. I'd rather be single than spend time with a ****.

I don't think anyone will ever be able to word it better.

Cosimo · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:58

Sounds like a loose woman’s last fling.

233 · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:58

sleep with her sister

makes it all good

semi-pro waster · 13 Apr 2008 at 13:58

I doubt I'd be very impressed, hen nights are a pretty scary business though. Avoid them like the plague and don't ask what goes on if you don't want to know is my advice.

Indy500 · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:02

My girlfriend wouldn't have a hen night to begin with, so that scenario won't come up...

divine` · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:04

Foxtrot26 said:
sleep with her sister

makes it all good

I can assure you, from personal experience, this is not a good idea.

Jotun · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:05

Immsy said:
Drink is not an excuse.

Scuzi said:
I'd rather be single than spend time with a ****.

Sums up my thoughts on this quite well.

randal · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:07

I'd be livid. If she can't control herself enough to prevent other men's wandering hands, then who knows what else she's "incapable" of stopping.

Ditch it mate, if she can't be trusted at this juncture then it's not gonna get any better.

Zip · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:07

If that happend it would be the end.
The wedding would be off.

Cosimo · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:09

This works both ways, some of the things happening on stag nights are unmentionable here. I wonder what they would say.

big_white_dog84 · 13 Apr 2008 at 14:09

If my gf behaved like that she'd be dumped on the spot. I detest rampaging hoards of women on nights out. They think they can behave in any way they like and get away with it.