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Never mix money and friends eh...
Rule of life.
Never mix money and friends eh...
Thanks all, I pay about £700 a month so the guy is getting a discount - pretty tough circumstances for him at the moment so we're basically doing him a bit of a favour.
Hate to feel like the guys are trying to take advantage - they're two of my best mates but I think they feel a bit like it's a bonus for me so they should get more of the share. Seems a tad unfair though. Ordinarily I would probably be the kind of guy who would just split it but this money is really helping me out for when I get back so I think I am well within my rights to take the majority.

Weird. Tell them to kick the guy out and you'll give them a discount of 0 instead of £75.
When you say "I pay £700", do you mean the rent payable to the landlord is £700, or your share?
If the rent for the house is £700 and there are three of you on the tenancy, then surely that means you pay £233.33 ish each per month?
In which case if you sub let the room at £350, then the sensible thing would be to deduct that from the £700, leaving £350, or £116.66 ish each left to pay.
It's not about who collects the money and pays the landlord, its about who is named on the tenancy agreement and thus far in the thread it is not at all clear as to the full structure of the agreement and the payments. The language you have used to get your point accross is very slanted towards making the situation seem worse for you, but without really drilling into the facts, in an effort to get the response you want? For example you say you "think we are all named". Surely you must know what is on your own tenancy agreement?
I don't mean that in an aggresive way, more in that as a trainer I pay a lot of interest in words and language that people use in order to satisfy their situation
Like I said before, if its your house, you on the tenancy and you sub-let the rooms, then there is no reason why you should allow them any discount at all, but if it is a house share, then I would be raging if I was one of your friends.
All the people saying "your room up to you" - Well only if the tenancy is in the OPs name - If its in all three names, as would appear is the case, then absoloutely NO. You cant just disregard two other people on a tenancy because it suits you - not just the money side of things, but also from actually allowing someone else use of the property!
But why would someone pay £700 rent of a £1700 a month agreement, which is what it would be in that scenario? This is what I am failing to understand - For starters £1700 a month would be a massive place for three lads to be sharing surely? Unless its like a ultra-modern place in the middle of London?
Hence why clarification needed.
Where are you getting £1,700 from? Mad old tory has just told us that the full rent for his room is £700 and that he's allowing a mutual friend of him and his flatmates to stay there for £500. He pays the landlord £700 per month and of the £500 from the mutual friend he is giving £75 each to his remaining flatmates so he's still actually paying £350 per month for a room that he's not living in - a damn sight better than the £700 it would be but still a chunk of money. It also reads that he is the one that deals with the landlord so the others pay their money via him to the landlord but if it were £700 for the whole lot I'd be deeply surprised if it were anything but a hovel and even then it's a pretty cheap hovel in London to accomodate three people.
Sadly £700 doesn't guarantee you the lap of luxury in London, it should be a reasonable place but it's not exceptional by any means to pay that for a single person sharing.
Stop thinking like that!I have free accommodation here, so although I am paying full rent back home, this is effectively a bonus for me
Again, I really don't think they are "good mates" if this is the grief they are giving you over your "bonus". It really is none of their business.Trust me these guys are good mates, just one can be a bit funny about money and the other is probably unsure on which "side" to take. Never mix money and friends eh...
