Looks or personality?

pegasus1 · 2 Sep 2006 at 10:09

reflex said:
80% looks
Over time it becomes 80% personality.

Edit - i forgot to add u can "sense" personality from clothing, piecings, environment etc. Thats why looks play a role.

*thinks* To try and make that more clearly if your a goth person and your at a gig and u know the people there have a similiar interest to you so there personality is more than likely going to be what you go for so its the down to looks.

Goths have a personality, im not having that.

Garrett · 2 Sep 2006 at 11:46

Looks to get me interested - doesn't have to be the traditional idea of good looks though - just that I find them attractive.

Then personality to if its going to turn into something long term.

Treefrog · 2 Sep 2006 at 11:47

I think it's interesting to bring up the idea of people you meet online at this point. Take the OcUK meets for example; all the people I've met and talked to at meets have been people who I've enjoyed having a "conversation" with online, male and female, old and young. But these peoples' personality has shown through in their posting which is what attracted me to them as people in the first place.

So for me it's personality every time.

Scythe · 2 Sep 2006 at 11:58

crystaline said:
personality 60 % looks 40%

Same.

Leeum · 2 Sep 2006 at 15:56

I'd say both are equally as important but I tend to base first impressions on looks

Killa_ken · 2 Sep 2006 at 15:58

Initial attraction is always based on physical apearence, however personality plays a major roll after the first month.

indyskyz · 2 Sep 2006 at 18:03

70% personality 30% looks

alltho initialy i went for my wife for looks i notice the face more than anything boobs legs hair colour have no meaning when you know that beautiful face is smilling at you

shes also very inteligent and we can talk for days......