Shyness is easily overcome, or faked. Not feeling comfortable looking someone in the eye isn't a medical condition so it's nothing like that. It's like FoxEye's recent thread about not being able to make conversation, more you think about it then more you'll fail. Just start doing it, sure it'll be uncomfortable initially but you'll quickly get over it. A bit like facing your fears I suppose.
Making eye contact with people
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Shyness is easily overcome, or faked. Not feeling comfortable looking someone in the eye isn't a medical condition so it's nothing like that. It's like FoxEye's recent thread about not being able to make conversation, more you think about it then more you'll fail. Just start doing it, sure it'll be uncomfortable initially but you'll quickly get over it. A bit like facing your fears I suppose.
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Castiel I am other hand really good at keeping eye contact especially when confronted with beautiful and rich women as you have posted picture of.
I am so good at it that it makes me very comfortable and relaxed while dealing on everyday to day task while being in presence of rich and beautiful women.
I know, I am so good.
I am not uncomfortable or aggitated in their company as it is not their wealth or their beauty that really distracts me.....but their BOOBIES....
Gemma........ Man she was beautiful when i met her, must have thought i was a right ********, stared at her jugs then asked for a photo together. She was so nice and even let me hug her in my drunken state. Didnt get the picture togther though 
You twerp.
Pardon?
Soldato
I dont have a problem with eye-contact and it will come naturally if you make an effort. When you are walking look straight ahead and not at the ground. I see people looking at their toes all the time. This does not show confidence - you dont want some hottie walking past to think that do ya 
Quick glance and smile is all you need. It can make someones day - have you ever experienced that. Youre passing some random girl and you catch her eye she smiles and you go on your way - all over in 2 secs.
Having said that theres a time and a place. You dont want to have eye-contact with the loonies @ the bars who are spoilin for a brawl.
And @ the pics of heavily PhotoShop-processsed chix!
Quick glance and smile is all you need. It can make someones day - have you ever experienced that. Youre passing some random girl and you catch her eye she smiles and you go on your way - all over in 2 secs.
Having said that theres a time and a place. You dont want to have eye-contact with the loonies @ the bars who are spoilin for a brawl.
And
@ the pics of heavily PhotoShop-processsed chix!
Man of Honour
A ten minute eye contact classes you are a weirdo.
Man of Honour
Soldato
3 weeks back on my luch break at work I was chilling in the park, and some guy was clearly ****ed of his face (was a window cleaner, with bucket and cleaning apparatus) and keep looking at me.
Eventually after about 20mins, I see him take the washer part of his cleaning tool and hold it like a weapon, and he staggered up to me asking me "what the f$£k am I looking at, am I a queer?"
I just said to him, no im not gay, and ignored him. He went back and sat down, but continued to stare at me.
I moved location in the park to go and sit with some freinds.
He sees that I have moved and decideds to move him self opposite me so he can continue to stare at me.
All this, on a super hot day, at around 2pm in the afternoon in a packed public park!
Eventually after about 20mins, I see him take the washer part of his cleaning tool and hold it like a weapon, and he staggered up to me asking me "what the f$£k am I looking at, am I a queer?"
I just said to him, no im not gay, and ignored him. He went back and sat down, but continued to stare at me.
I moved location in the park to go and sit with some freinds.
He sees that I have moved and decideds to move him self opposite me so he can continue to stare at me.
All this, on a super hot day, at around 2pm in the afternoon in a packed public park!
love it
People can be bizarre, is this a usual occurrence from where you are from?
Associate
Never had an issue, or really though about it either tbh. The ony trouble I have with keeping eye contact is when I am confronted with examples of humanity that look like this:
That's more to do with gravitational pull than anything else
I am not uncomfortable or aggitated in their company as it is not their wealth or their beauty that really distracts me.....but their BOOBIES....
Sir, I'm going to require a name please.