Marrige Costs

A[L]C said:
mines gonna be about 1500 thats with church wedding, 2 shires + carriage, reception @ golf club, buffet for 120 people, brand new wedding dress (£750), all suit hire and bridesmaids dresses :D

That sounds extremely cheap! our reception alone cost £1200, in a country pub, sit down meal and buffet later, that was for 40 people. And i thought that was quite a good deal!!
 
We spent under £5k on our wedding and had a great day.

My dad did the wedding in my wife's local church (no fees), a friend did the photos, another friend did all the food himself for 120 people at minimal cost, my mother-in-law made all the dresses...

It can be done cheap, if you can get people to help.
 
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I don’t see the point in spending so much on a wedding.
The last wedding I went to only cost them around 3k and it was really really nice. My girlfriends parents have been saving for her wedding for years, no idea why but they plan to spend more on her wedding then my mortgage is!!! That’s DB9 money . That’s really stupid if you ask me but that’s the way Indian parents think
 
If I ever get married it would be in a church, even though I'm agnostic. I'm a big fan of tradition and besides, from the sounds of it, it would be more economical than a registry office! :D

As for the reception, I've got my heart set on a pavillion on the cricket field of my school, where wedding receptions are regularly held.
 
I'd say spend as much as you can afford on your wedding, it should be something you and your ex can look back on with fond memories. After all it's one of those things you may only do two or three times in your life so you should enjoy it while you can :)
 
If you (generic 'you') are spending that sort of money for you and your spouse, why spend it on a wedding? Why not spend weeks on a paradise island in luxury? I think that would be better for fond memories than one day of paying through the nose to feed and entertain other people.

When the wedding is in effect a marriage between families...fine, the families should pay for it.
 
The idea of spending around a year's or half year's wage (variable) in one day scares and worries me. The problem is, if I ever do get married, I know I won't have a choice in the matter :(

I'd rather put money like that aside to pay off a mortgage and stuff, but hey, I'm male.
 
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