Never thought I’d be posting one of these threads…

bum · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:30

Where is her 'partner'? From your post it appears that they are not living together. Do they ever see each other still?

I don't think it's a matter of 'breaking other's relationship' it's more of sit down, talk to her about what she's going to do next.

Wang Computer · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:34

I've just been through exactly the same situation as the OP, albeit in a slightly more progressed state.

I met a girl with the obligatory other-half through work and we instantly hit it off as friends. We started seeing each other out of work and naturally one thing led to another. Eventually she separated from said partner for a litany of reasons (myself included) and all was well between us for a few months. Then all of a sudden the ex-partner makes a play to reconcile and I suddenly get the cold shoulder. Just out of blue, loike!

Initially it was just a bit of fun and something to take my mind off the breakdown of my long-term thing some months before. However I think I actually have feelings for this girl and it's left me pretty upset and somewhat miffed. Seeing her around my place of work, although we work in different departments, is also pretty annoying.

I'm not even remotely chauvinistic but I will say that women do often tend to behave in a peculiar fashion in these situations. Also agree with the assertion that 'once a cheat, always a cheat', irrespective of gender. Ho hum.

I just posted in a relationship thread. I feel dirty!

^TANK^ · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:38

She has a boyfriend! Wait until they part then move in on her, or you're just another horrible **** that likes to wreck relationships!

mcwildcard · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:44

She's either a serial cheat, or a massive overlapper.
Either way, she's bad news, even if you do end up with her you'll never be able to trust her fully. Plus those sorts of girls are generally high maintenance, attention-seeking with self-image issues

bloodiedathame · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:48

Fireskull said:
Mate if you give up motorbikes for a female I'm going to come slap you

+1

bloodiedathame · 30 Sep 2010 at 13:50

Personally I'd start to make excuses about seeing her, make her chase you, sounds like you never say 'No' to her. If she bites then she's serious, if not then move on I'm afraid.

wildman · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:03

^TANK^ said:
She has a boyfriend! Wait until they part then move in on her, or you're just another horrible **** that likes to wreck relationships!

yes that's right because its will of course be the OP's fault entirely if the relationship goes down the swanny :rolleyes:

Swifty55 · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:15

Tell her you have aids, you will then truly know if she likes you or not!

Mat · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:21

The longer you leave it, the harder it will get.

Take that any way you choose

(That that one any way you choose too!)

BennyC · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:27

Mat said:
The longer you leave it, the harder it will get.

Take that any way you choose

(That that one any way you choose too!)

Roffle.

antijoke · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:30

You do know you don't have to use 'things' to mean sex. You can just say, we have had sex.

Kazz · 30 Sep 2010 at 14:42

anticonscience said:
You can just say, we have had sex.

It was a vulnerable time in my life and you took advantage

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Master_X · 30 Sep 2010 at 15:35

You need to talk to her.

Make sure its 'after'.............you know...........just in case it goes wrong!

VeNT · 30 Sep 2010 at 15:35

tbh dude, if you don't want to brake up the relationship then don't

Sp00n · 30 Sep 2010 at 15:37

d_brennen said:
She's cheating - this time with you. Next time it will be on you.

You win the prize.

MajorMaccas · 30 Sep 2010 at 15:50

Not just a mug...a big mug

Kutter · 30 Sep 2010 at 17:01

The_Sophisticate said:
Not just a mug...a big mug

http://www.cfowise.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ceramic_mug.jpg

Snap son ! you just got dissed by The_Sophisticate :eek: