Very true! If you can get into it then it's well worth the investment for the time you'll get out of it... I'm biased though and have been a fan since the original Operation Flashpoint.
Yes I’m biased as well, it’s a truly outstanding game if you like the genre, which of course I do.
If OP you decide to buy Arma 2 please give it time, the mod community that has built up around this game is quite incredible, there is lots of game-play potential, I would argue possibly years of game-play (if you move into the 'Editor') with all the islands/maps that have been made by the community plus factions, vehicles, aircraft, armour, weapons, etc ,etc..
But you do have to like the genre to really enjoy it..
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