Personally I think the Dealer knew he wasn't likely to get a deal out of you so just let you pass on by.
I do it myself when selling a motor, If an awkward Dude phones or comes round I go out my way to get rid & get somebody I can make some money from.
I bet if you had cash things would be completely different.
Hence, the bad rep you guys get.
I wasn't awkward. I gave him my requirements. He could just have said, "really sorry, but your budget is unrealistic. Wait another year when you've paid off more of your current finance agreement"
I actually said as much to him; that i was willing to wait if nothing was available.
Instead he emailed me saying "I have had a look and am positive that we can get you into a new car."