Had quite an interesting situation develop at uni recently, and I wanted to vent a little.
First year of uni I met a girl who followed me round everywhere but was blowing hot and cold worse than my old rover did when the head gasket went, but we became really close friends anyway. This went on for months until she told me she liked me and invited me round with the promise of some fun. When I got there she went very odd, I left with no fun and after that she wouldn't speak to me, my asking what was wrong resulted in her declaring her hatred for me. A few days later she tried to get me to dance with her, again with the promise of some 'fun', but I declined and later on we ended up having a bit of a barney about it so I told her I wasn't speaking to her any more (very simplified).
Following on from that during the second year she would give me death stares periodically during lectures, which resulted in a lot of 'what happened between those two' questions, which until now have gone unanswered.
In the final year she moved in with a few people in my tutorial group, who I happened to be friendly with, and are also close friends with a few of my close friends. Apparently they asked her what happened between us and she told them I stalked her, so now they are being a bit off with me. My friends told them there was no stalking involved, as they were around when it all happened but her housemates believe her and think I'm a nut job now. So now everyone thinks I am crazy, which makes going to uni a bit of a rubbish experience.
What should I do about this? I had hoped they would believe the friends that actually knew what was going on, rather than assuming she was telling the truth. Quite frankly I am not entirely sure why she told them anything in the first place as it was something I thought was dead.
First year of uni I met a girl who followed me round everywhere but was blowing hot and cold worse than my old rover did when the head gasket went, but we became really close friends anyway. This went on for months until she told me she liked me and invited me round with the promise of some fun. When I got there she went very odd, I left with no fun and after that she wouldn't speak to me, my asking what was wrong resulted in her declaring her hatred for me. A few days later she tried to get me to dance with her, again with the promise of some 'fun', but I declined and later on we ended up having a bit of a barney about it so I told her I wasn't speaking to her any more (very simplified).
Following on from that during the second year she would give me death stares periodically during lectures, which resulted in a lot of 'what happened between those two' questions, which until now have gone unanswered.
In the final year she moved in with a few people in my tutorial group, who I happened to be friendly with, and are also close friends with a few of my close friends. Apparently they asked her what happened between us and she told them I stalked her, so now they are being a bit off with me. My friends told them there was no stalking involved, as they were around when it all happened but her housemates believe her and think I'm a nut job now. So now everyone thinks I am crazy, which makes going to uni a bit of a rubbish experience.
What should I do about this? I had hoped they would believe the friends that actually knew what was going on, rather than assuming she was telling the truth. Quite frankly I am not entirely sure why she told them anything in the first place as it was something I thought was dead.
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