Poll: Relationship cheating question..

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  • I could forgive A, but not B.

    Votes: 43 12.1%

  • I could forgive either A or B. Everyone makes mistakes.

    Votes: 8 2.2%

  • I couldn't forgive either A or B. Once a cheat always a cheat.

    Votes: 132 37.1%

  • I don't agree with 'once a cheat always a cheat' but I couldn't forgive either A or B.

    Votes: 121 34.0%

  • Pancake.

    Votes: 52 14.6%
  • Total voters
    356
Been there done that. You end up disliking them so much the second time and using it to win arguements.

Pointless, never ever again. Have also never cheated on anyone so feel I deserve that I can tell them to beat it if it ever happens.
 
A... possibly - but you would have to be careful in how you forgive her. Forgive her too easily and she'll probably do it again.

B can get ******... or get used for sexytime
 
lol @ the last dozen posts - GD will expect a progress report RE wife webbing :p

Took me about 15 years to speak to a good mate (at the time) who slept with a subsequent ex of mine. They ended up moving in together and had a kid, then she did the dirty on him as I said she would.
Autumn last year he and I met at a mutual friends wedding bash, had a good old chat about it all, where I apologised for being a stubborn git and he was quite diffident when it came to saying that I had been right all along, and he should have listened to me and others at the time instead of thinking with the wrong head seeing as having to have anything to do with her now totally does his head in. :D
 
I wouldn't forgive either. An 'accidental' kiss (totally wasted) I would be angry enough at, but to go home with someone and shag them, at some point she must have thought 'I could stop this' or 'This is wrong' and then carried on anyway.
 
I could forgive A, but not B

A drunken one night stand, whilst devastating, is something you can work through. Leaving you for a "friend" only to come crawling back is too much, it's the stuff episodes of Jeremy Kyle are made of.
 
3 I couldn't forgive either A or B. Once a cheat always a cheat.
Also the mate would get a good kicking in.


Having said that if "you are madly in love with her and you truly believe her to be the 'one'." I'd have blinkers on and probably 2 I could forgive either A or B. Everyone makes mistakes :(.
 
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A, could possibly be forgiven, given the circumstances outlined that she is "the one". But as said above it would take a lot of effort on her part for me to forgive and it certainly wouldn't be forgotten. It would more than likely be the end in the long run due to the lack of trust I would feel towards her.

B, well she has no chance and she would be gone.
 
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