Poll: Relationship cheating question..

[Munkyman]

Definitely 4, i couldn't forgive either situation

 

[arknor]

once trust is gone its gone forever.

it wouldnt stand with me

 

[Twentyone]

4. I would never forgive anything like that. The trust would be gone.

 

[Tefal]

LOL you never cease to amaze Tefal pure comedy.

For me it would be 4.

^_^

 

[Buffman]

B is unforgiveable and I'm too stubborn to forgive A.

 

[Participant]

B is unforgiveable and I'm too sensible to forgive A.

Fixed.

 

[sigma]

If she agreed to a threesome with her twin sister then I'd consider pancake tbh.

 

[Morba]

Pancake.

Only because I would try to forgive A, don't know if I could, but i would try.

 

[robgmun]

If she agreed to a threesome with her twin sister then I'd consider pancake tbh.

Hum, joking aside. If she offered to do a threesome (with, in my case, her hot cousin) i could possibably let A slide, but i still wouldn't forgive B

 

[uvarvu]

Voted 3 here.

 

[Vonhelmet]

3 months into our relationship, my then girlfriend, now wife, got off with a random on a night out. She confessed and I forgave her. That was 9 years ago.

I'd struggle with option B, because the way it's phrased suggests it goes on for a while, in a conspiratorial sort of way. It would depend very much on what was said about it when she confessed.

 

[Castiel]

I'm really not sure to be honest, if you had asked me 20 years ago my answer would have been "see ya later, we are done" to both questions, but 15 years of marriage that has seen my wife put up with my Forces career, almost losing me to the Iraq War, spending several years helping me rehabilitate and gain full fitness after serious injury, at the same time as raising our Son and holding down a highly regarded profession occupation, I would say that she deserves all the forgiveness I could muster and more.

The 'best' friend however, would have been dog-meat 20 years ago and dog-meat now...

 

[Buffman]

Fixed.

Haha, that too. I might try but I dont think I could live with it tbh.

 

[Vonhelmet]

The 'best' friend however, would have been dog-meat 20 years ago and dog-meat now...

That's a very good point. He'd be in massive trouble.

 

[ikillbears]

B pretty much happened to me. A, I don't know

 

[mjt]

Having (thankfully) never been in neither situation, I choose Pancake.
HTH

 

[Theophany]

Yay. Another relationship thread.


Just shoot me now...

 

[G-MAN2004]

I wouldn't forgive either, and I'd feel like an idiot even considering it. Cheat on me and you're out for good.

 

[KatanaDV20]

Id never forgive either. Once a cheat always a cheat. Never trust again. Ever.

 

[Castiel]

That's a very good point. He'd be in massive trouble.

That's an understatement. When I said dog-meat I meant literally.