Why can't you just change the names and make the post clearer?
Jack - Grandson
Rob - Son
etc.
the way you have done it is terrible to read and figure out.
also it sounds like your son picked a terrible person to fertilise. best thing for him to do would be walk away or seek legal advice from a solicitor.
if this guy is in such a well paid job and comfortable why are his offspring and partners on drugs and living in social housing and being evicted, etc?
it sounds like perfect jeremy kyle type scenario. walk away.
Yes, I was in a state of shock Tbh.
It started because I sent a text to her mum asking politely about the welfare of my grand son. This triggered a massive rant by her basically asking for money.
For a year they have been messing my son around and even taken him to court claiming he was abusing the child's mother. He wasn't, they had an argument.
She won't let us see the child at all now, I've seen him twice last time about 6 months ago.
The child's mother has a real dad and a step dad, the real dad seems to have alcohol related self control problems.
The step dad won't allow the child's mother to live in his house where her real mother lives with the step dad.
God this difficult.
A = childs mother
B= child's grandmother (mother's mother)
C=mothers step dad.
D=mothers real dad
D seems to have alcohol related self control issues, never met him.
B seems to vary from being reasonable to going crazy.
C has sent me one text, no other communication except when at hospital when baby was born. He smelled of booze and had a pack of cigs in his hand.
OK
A is the child's mother 20 years old,
A, has been living in a rented flat and not managing her money, A has recently been thrown out of flat and put in council flat. A was reported to social services by B for smoking cannabis.
B has told me a third girl has been a bad influence on A. She has given A money for food and baby stuff, third girl and A have been blowing the money on booze and fags.
A tells me i am evil and never wants to hear from me, tells me she is a great mother and not to contact B or C. She has done this regularly for 10 months or so.
I texted B politely enquiring about baby's welfare as A told my son baby had virus and my son couldn't see baby.
This was supposed to be supervised contact as per one of the court hearings. To prove my son could care for baby.
B goes on a massive rant about how much everything is costing her and slagging my family and my son off, he is a student so has no money.
I did reply slightly less politely, but nothing too bad
I then received the one and only text from C saying give me money or I will do all I can to stop your son seeing baby.
I replied saying C and B will never see a penny from me.
Oh and I did call A weird and say her step dad C was a nasty little man.
What's more this is all absolutely true
