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Phate

Phate

Phate

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Hi all,

I'm sure some of you remember a thread or 2 about a certain best friend of mine who is Bi.

Now, it was her birthday yesturday, but due to me attending the OcUk RR6 day, I could not go out Friday with the usual group, and everyone was skint, so me and her went out last night in Chelmsford.

We went for a meal at "Back Inn Time" and we started to get sozzled on cocktails there, and then headed out.

Went for a drink in Hot House, then headed to Edwards.

Half 1 in the morning, me and her are stumbling down the highstreet and I don't remember how I got home.

I woke this morning to find a miss call from an unknown number, I ring it back to find it's her Dad (whom I've never met before) and he kindly informed me that he took me home from sleepy directions from my Mum as I was to poleaxed to actually give any.

He then started to question me, by saying things like...

"How long have you known her"

which led on to

"How long have you two been going out?" - this was my face when I heard this :eek:

Me not being sure what to say or what she had told her Dad I said "you'll have to ask your Daughter" - I made some excuse of having a banging headache (only had a mild hang over) and that I would speak to him soon, thanked him for the lift and ended the call.

Now my friend is currently 3 hours away with her over religious aunt and uncle which are taking her to some special Church which apparently the virgin Mary walked in for an hour of mass (she doesn't believe in God) and won't be back for 2 hours or so.

Can you see where I'm going yet?

I can't get through to her as her phone is off, I have no idea what happened for the last hour of the night, and my shirt smells of her, also I washed some of what looked like her make up off my face (rubbing cheeks anyone?) - So I'm confused and also a little worried.

What do I say to her and how do I approach her to see if she knows more than me about last night? bare in mind her partner is also a good friend of mine, and if we have done anything and word gets out, it could split the group up.

What do I say and how do I go about it?

Thanks all.
 
These forums are much better than neighbours :)

I think you should call the dad back and ask for more details of what you were doing. I'm guessing you were making out in the back of the car or something, but just telling him you cant remember will presumably help straighten things out.
 
Try and get in contact with her ASAP i'd say. You two could have made a judgement error last night :o

Maybe you'd just been rolling around together? And then you tried on her makeup....

Sounds like a good cover story to me :D
 
Gaygle said:
Try and get in contact with her ASAP i'd say. You two could have made a judgement error last night :o

Maybe you'd just been rolling around together? And then you tried on her makeup....

Sounds like a good cover story to me :D
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lol could just be that shes looking for a 3rd if she's bi.... ;)
 
Gaygle said:
Try and get in contact with her ASAP i'd say. You two could have made a judgement error last night :o

Maybe you'd just been rolling around together? And then you tried on her makeup....

Sounds like a good cover story to me :D
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Well I've left her a text asing her to contact me when she can, so can only wait I guess.

I don't think that cover story will work unfortunately :p
 
Jest3r said:
lol could just be that shes looking for a 3rd if she's bi.... ;)
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Maybe :p - problem is it'll screw the group up if anything did/does happen they all found out.
 
may i be the first to say well in but at least try and remember it next time :p On a more serious note theres probably a perfectly good explanation
 
blitz2163 said:
may i be the first to say well in but at least try and remember it next time :p On a more serious note theres probably a perfectly good explanation
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Hopefully there is, she just text back saying shes on her way home, but can't ring me as her aunt and uncle can't stand mobile phones and she text me from under her jacket.
 
Phate said:
Hi all,

I'm sure some of you remember a thread or 2 about a certain best friend of mine who is Bi.

Now, it was her birthday yesturday, but due to me attending the OcUk RR6 day, I could not go out Friday with the usual group, and everyone was skint, so me and her went out last night in Chelmsford.

We went for a meal at "Back Inn Time" and we started to get sozzled on cocktails there, and then headed out.

Went for a drink in Hot House, then headed to Edwards.

Half 1 in the morning, me and her are stumbling down the highstreet and I don't remember how I got home.

I woke this morning to find a miss call from an unknown number, I ring it back to find it's her Dad (whom I've never met before) and he kindly informed me that he took me home from sleepy directions from my Mum as I was to poleaxed to actually give any.

He then started to question me, by saying things like...

"How long have you known her"

which led on to

"How long have you two been going out?" - this was my face when I heard this :eek:

Me not being sure what to say or what she had told her Dad I said "you'll have to ask your Daughter" - I made some excuse of having a banging headache (only had a mild hang over) and that I would speak to him soon, thanked him for the lift and ended the call.

Now my friend is currently 3 hours away with her over religious aunt and uncle which are taking her to some special Church which apparently the virgin Mary walked in for an hour of mass (she doesn't believe in God) and won't be back for 2 hours or so.

Can you see where I'm going yet?

I can't get through to her as her phone is off, I have no idea what happened for the last hour of the night, and my shirt smells of her, also I washed some of what looked like her make up off my face (rubbing cheeks anyone?) - So I'm confused and also a little worried.

What do I say to her and how do I approach her to see if she knows more than me about last night? bare in mind her partner is also a good friend of mine, and if we have done anything and word gets out, it could split the group up.

What do I say and how do I go about it?

Thanks all.
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She probably told her dad you were going out because she doesn't want him to know she's BI as her family sound very religious and wouldn't take it well.
 
Just say "Hey, i didn't do anything out of line last night did i? Just my memory seems pretty hazy and your dad had some idea we were going out?"

Should be fairly straightforward and unoffensive.
 
Phate said:
Hopefully there is, she just text back saying shes on her way home, but can't ring me as her aunt and uncle can't stand mobile phones and she text me from under her jacket.
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That is a poor state of affairs to be honest!

Just wait for her phone call dude. Sure nothin happend, kiss max mayb? :p

R
 
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