Man of Honour
I'm not trying to question anyone, just a poll would indicate the mood of the OcUK community regardless of gender.
It's just adding an option if a woman wishes to have a non male avatar. There is nothing sinister or ulterior than that really.
I wasn't suggesting that there was a sinister motive for your request but if there's nothing to try to align the gender of the poster with the gender of the avatar then all you're doing is allowing everyone access to a non-male avatar so effectively we've now got 6 or however many avatars (5 being the norm based on postcount excluding those given by appointment) that don't identify gender. I really just don't see any benefit to it.
Why bother?
All the current avatars are of male gangsters, a bit one sided imo, I think it would be more interesting to have a couple of female ones too.
It doesn't need to be about recognising the posters gender.
Indeed, the question is why bother and the answer seems to be that there's no real point either way except as mentioned some of the female members have said they don't particularly want it or need it. In such a case I'm afraid laziness wins for me and with as with many things changing just because you can doesn't always yield a useful result.

) none has seemed keen on it being changed.
I can't believe you just asked that! lol