Stag Do000s and unfaithfulness.

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Firstly i am not married so in my past a Stag Do has usually been a way for me to waste a few 100 quid in a strip bar whilst getting very drunk and having various young ladies rub themselves all over me like cats in heat.

Last 2 I've been to both of the grooms to be have fully "gone for it" with dancing girls to the point were it got me thinking i'm glad their wives to be wont hear about this its actually going a little too far....(in my opinion)

SO i ask married men of OcUK, Best men and friends of the soon to be hitched, do you think there is anything wrong with the cliche "last night of freedom" with a carte blanche to do "what you want"? Or should you show a little respect for your wife to be and beloved(I would hope?)

Obviously this would apply to a Hen night too but i don't think married woman are not too strongly represented on here. Anyone know any Brides or Grooms that were "caught out" and the wedding was canceled or secrets so heinous they will be taken to their graves? :D :eek:

Both couples in my tale are still both very happily married and i'm sure one of their wives said very coolly, "what happens on your stag night is none of my business," personally i think that is woman speak for go too far and i will kill you.... but anyway!

Am i being a prude ? or just getting old... :confused::p
Discuss.
 
My view is it's still cheating, if that is what you want to do then maybe getting married isn't the right choice.

If my wife had of cheated on my at her Hen do then the wedding would have been called off and she would have been out on her ****
 
i think sex or kissing is off limits, everything else is alright though isn't it?

B@

So "sexual contact" (to use Jeremy Kyle's terms) would be okay? Like Pretty Woman rules?

Nah...sorry, its not like way back when, when you had never done anything with your intended and your wedding night was going to be the first time

Cheating is cheating no matter if it happens when you just start a relationship, have been in one for years or if its on the Stag/Hen do - just no in my book
 
"what happens on your stag night is none of my business," personally i think that is woman speak for go too far and i will kill you.... but anyway!

Tbh I think that's more like, I'm getting upto no good on my hen night so don't ask me about my night and I won't ask you about yours
 
Yup, Cheating at the 'gone too far' stage. Really, I shuold imagine theres an expectation of a lap dance but any errrr mutual exchange of fluids, qualifies as too far.
 
Been to many a do including my own although I didn’t remember much of it.

The getting smashed or whatever, bound in tape and left naked on a common, etc are just fine but when it comes to having sex it’s cheating as you’re already in a relationship and have committed to that person.

If you feel the need to have sex then one really does have to question whether you’re fit to make a commitment to marriage.
 
I think those who use it as an excuse to cheat on their soon to be wife should probably think about whether going through with the wedding is what they really want... You could be with someone for a long time and want to spend your life with them but decide to screw around because you can get away with it :confused:

Each to their own and all that, although it's not something I'd do or would be particularly ok with if it happened the other way.

It's my brothers stag do in a couple months and I'm the best man, not sure I'd be comfortable with him wanting to shag around but he's an adult I guess.
 
Having said that, some women (read wives and girlfriends) seem to think it's OK to touch men's bodies...but if you touch a woman's, then you'll be in some serious trouble!

Yes I agree with that (that some women seem to think a male stripper is different to men watching a woman).

On the cheating side of it, I also don't like the fact the groom is making a fool of his bride by cheating on her when all of his mates who are going to be at the wedding will know, that's pretty cruel.
 
Just remember lads, your brides are having a "last night of freedom" as well. If the thought of her doing what you are about to do with someone else, with someone else makes you uncomfortable, you probably shouldn't do it.

And in before the "herp derp if my missus went to town with a female stripper I'd be up for it" jokes.
 
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I remember having a few beers after work and a girl we work with told me and my male colleague, "I've told Dave he can have a blow job on his stag do as long as he pays for it. The thing is though, I can't decide what my limit should be, I love giving BJs but if i was drunk could i stop there? And i don't think it's fair that I want him to pay for it but i could do it to any random bloke."

I nearly fell off my chair.
 
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