I'm not a woman, Mischief is a woman. I'm a bloke. Do not send me dick pics.
I don't care, you're getting them anyway
I'm not a woman, Mischief is a woman. I'm a bloke. Do not send me dick pics.
stop making up excuses for him
Ok this is going to sound like I'm 'defending' him again, but he never said anything like 'I've changed'. He emailed me over a month ago and wanted to apologise and I think he genuinely meant it. When you say he treated me like dirt, it was more like him backing away and going all quiet - which is completely understandable if someone is going through a bad patch. Yes he did cancel on me like a million times, but when I was going through a bad patch I also did the same to my close friends.
He hasn't asked for anything from me other than to meet and catch up. I have no intention of getting back with him, and he probably doesn't even want to either. He's probably just curious and feeling a bit lonely (in terms of friendships, not in the bedroom..) as he doesn't have many friends. In a way I kinda feel sorry for him.
I completely understand what you're trying to say though and I appreciate your advice. I know I'll only have myself to blame if I let anything happen between us.
He disrespected you so much the first (and second?) time around, and you're giving him the time of day again?
Yeah 'most' like you say, so he could be an exception like my first ex was My first ex asked to meet up 3 months after we split. He wanted to apologise face to face, not sleep with me or get back together. It was his way of relieving the guilt so he could properly move on.Literally the only reason I would ask an ex to meet up and catch up is if I wanted to sleep with them or get back with them, or both. I think that would apply to most men as well.
Yeah 'most' like you say, so he could be an exception like my first ex was My first ex asked to meet up 3 months after we split. He wanted to apologise face to face, not sleep with me or get back together. It was his way of relieving the guilt so he could properly move on.
People on here are only going to tell you not to meet up with him for obvious reasons, but I think you probably still like him deep down so there's probably not much point in asking for advice on here, just go do what you want to do
So a couple of months ago you didn't want to go on a second date with a guy, because you thought he was too good for you, never really getting the chance to know him properly. Now you're potentially going to meet up with an ex who repeatedly cancelled on you multiple times over the course of a few months. I'm not quite so sure I see the logic behind that.
Women have no logic....
Women have strange logic....
It's not that strange, she's still attracted to her ex and wasn't attracted to the guy she went out with. Sort of like you'd let a lot of things slide with a girl if she was stunning and filthy in bed
I feel fine after meeting him and I think the attraction is no longer there anymore.. Probably because of his new beard.
Don't sound too sure...
Looks like it's pro help time for me.
Can't cope at all.
Job, this, general personality are all negatively affecting each other.
Oh dear. I won't write any more as there is no point
Looks like it's pro help time for me.
Can't cope at all.
Job, this, general personality are all negatively affecting each other.
Oh dear. I won't write any more as there is no point
Looks like it's pro help time for me.
Can't cope at all.
Job, this, general personality are all negatively affecting each other.
Oh dear. I won't write any more as there is no point
well its good that you've come to that conclusion. I did the same. take some time to really concentrate on you. i personally think you have some stuff to deal with so get that straight and right and it will hopefully and more than likely make all of your life better as a whole. this takes time. its not going to happen over night.
with this as well. don't do on line dating. don't date. you need to sort your self out and you can't do that while with some one else as it will ' cramp ' your style and essentially slow down if not stop you're recovery. of course thats my opinion but its one coming from experience and currently in processing as it were