Rossi, what happened??
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Surely you have kids after being together for 7 years?
Nothing happened as such just got in from work and I ask how her day has been and if she's ok and she says no I need to talk, I don't think I can go through with the wedding.
No kids in the mix luckily.
Dude am sorry, that's rough!
Yeh it's been a tough night. Went to stay at my mum's for the night.
No chance to work things out? If this is the first you're hearing about it, then you haven't tried to sort it out as a couple.
I don't know. She said she just feels like we're friends and as marriage has been a while off she hadn't been excited for it an she thought she would be more excited by now.
Lucky escape..... Would be far more complicated if you did get married infact you lose every way.
Chin up
Possibly yeh.
And Rossi you had a lucky escape, better 7 years now than 7 years after marriage.
I'm finding it hard to see positives atm. My last breakup really messed me up emotionally and took me a long time to get over. This is a much longer relationship where no one has done anything wrong she just doesn't feel the same way about me anymore it seems. I kinda respect her for having the ball to tell me as I know how hard that will have been.
Hopefully you can sort it out have things not been smooth recently
Things have been fine really. This is why I'm so stunned. I didn't really know what to say/do/think last night so just grabbed some clothes for work and went for a drive and then to my mum's.
You never know, you never know. Going to be hard going if you didn't see it coming. No doubt she's been thinking about it for a while.
Only good thing is, better now than later with marriage. But none of that will make you feel better.
Sorry to hear it, this thread is good for venting. Hope you have a good support network and hobbies outside the relationship
I think that is what I'm going to hear the most really that it is better now than later.
It's not only the relationship that's hit me hard now but it's also the realisation that will need to tell nearly 50 guests that we aren't getting married and their flights and accommodation which is already booked Is no longer needed.
It's funny as the same thing happened to one of my best mates last year. Albeit they split due to her cheating but same situation, people due to go abroad for their wedding and I always thought god I'm glad Im not in that situation. Funny how things happen.