The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Fuzz said:
Going spare today with nothing to do. It's been OCUK>FB>YT>OCUK>FB>YT>EMAIL>OCUK rinse and repeat.. It's just about doing my box in now. :mad:
It's lashing down outside and all I can do is sit here and wonder about life, her and what might have been. etc etc.

**** :(
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Instead of thinking of that, think of the time I blew a boost hose at the RR day and filled the lovely Tewkesbury countryside with smog and particulates, and then had to drive home at 50mph.

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Fuzz said:
It does cost a little money to run your own page, some group organisers wear that cost, others pass it on to the members (like £2 a year each or something)

I've done a daft thing... :(
Gone and text the ex that I was feeling a bit down and lonely tonight. Oops.
I was feeling a right bit better this weekend having spent it down south with my brother going out to a gig and a pub.. Soon as I get home I'm thinking about her again...
FFFFFUUUUUUUuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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BUT YOU WERE DOING SO WELL

Argh. :p
 
Kristoph said:
We ended up having a 2 hour chat on facebook.

To be honest, I think he came out worse, but thanked me. We're both decent people, and both feel like **** that it happened to each other.

I was his replacement, but she hadn't found the courage to end it with him.
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TrixiBuG said:
Its not that hard - we want a guy as much as you want a girl!

This is something that my OH has only just realised...chatting up a girl is like having an interview for sexy times, you have to sell yourself and make them like you enough for a 2nd interview (date) or a job offer ("Coffee back at my place?") ;)

It is true tho!
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Awesome!

I'll take my CV next time, that'll get em :p
 
HybridX said:
If i know I'm friend zoned 100% then i can deal with that and move on. It's the uncertainty of it all especially after Friday nights revelations. I kind of get the impression she's undecided where she wants to be.

Meh dunno, completely messed up situation
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Sounds pretty complicated, if only it was all easy. :(

Then again, if it does work out you must smash her pasty into next Thursday in reward of all the effort you put in. :D
 
Blazin23 said:
I don't think I've been here long enough. Does Magnolia normally not make sense? :p

Blazin
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Put a monkey on smack, cover it's eyes and place a thousand keyboards in a room. The keystroke-filled mess that ensues is pretty representative of a Magnolia post :p

...in a good way of course. Some posts are hilarious, others are more WUT? than anything else.
 
churchhawk said:
Cheers bud, but it does feel like its going to turn ugly. We've been friends in the same house for 3 weeks now and its not nice.

Just arranged for the estate agent to come round and value the place.

Bad times :(
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Come to an OcUK meet, a couple of us will be Wingmen Of Honour and before you know it you'll be chucking your junk all over the place.*

*may not happen
 
Well, looks like I'm moving out and back in with my parents.
Bah, it's been a long time coming - seems I just can't get over our bad past, and it's really getting to me. Any meets coming up soon where I can drink my own bodyweight in beer? :p
 
If the spark is there, then that's the one to go for.
However America is bluddy far, and can you deal with the idea of a bourbon-drinking Texan hanging out the back of her? :o

In this situation, I'd smash the local and not actually properly date either. Maybe when she returns?
 
Sod that, I'm 6ft 4 and not far off your weight, yet have a pretty damn fine partner (all drama stopped for now) and have had some good catches in the past too.

It's not about what you are, it's who you are.
If you're not a raving douche you'll be able to pull 20x as many women as an 18 stone version of you that's a knob. True story :)
 
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