My ex text me for the first time in over 2 months yesterday. For the first time I didn't get that pit in my stomach that I'd usually get when I hear from her, all I felt was anger that she decided to text to ask if she had seen me in my car over the weekend.
Know the feeling well. My ex broke up with me 18 months ago but I stopped initiating contact about a year ago. It had been almost 2 months since she last messaged me and then last week I get the standard "hey, how are you" with smiley faces :/ waited a few days to reply and now silence once again. What is the point!? I'd be quite happy just to have no contact but she always initiates, and she was the one that broke it off...