Soldato
Pop smoke and break contact with both girls.
She's cheating on her boyfriend.
Need more?
As yourself this question. If this other girl didn't come along, would you be thinking about any of the above or would you carry on as normal?
B. I mean, you've started to move on from what I'm reading. All A will do is cause drama and C is morally not a good idea which could also lead to A being more drama.
If you decide to end things I'd suggest not mentioning this new girl you like because nothing has actually happened and it won't go down well for you.
How, by talking to other guys?
Should I...
A. Tell her I have been speaking to another girl
B. Outright break up because of reasons listed above
C. Tell her nothing and wait to see how things pan out
D. Something else?
I take it you have never had much success with the ladies otherwise you would know its true.
I wouldn't mention anything about replacements, just tell her you want to split up because you want children and she doesn't, it's a perfectly valid thing to discuss. And although it's a difficult subject to broach early in, it's important to have that discussion as soon as possible when entering a relationship because it's better you know what each other wants now than 2 years down the line.
Met my gf on a dating website, you could set 3 options for kids: Don't want kids, might want kids, do want kids. We both had do want kids and we both discussed it in person after being together 3 months or so, similar with marriage etc. We both agreed it's better to have this conversation now than in 3 years and realise we want different things.Im of the opinion it should be a filter available on online dating sites (it may be, I dont kknow)
People usually know if they dont want kids, do want kids or are Unsure.
Would save a lot of wasted time. Absolutely no point in not talking about it as its something you can't compromise on.
Id be interested on female comments if there are any on here