got the popcorn ready , go for it
So after we just became “friends” things where fine and I was getting over it, then she dropped hints she wanted fun again. Soon after she went up to see her mates and dropped by (3 hour drive to her mates and my place is about half way. For context one of these mates is guy we as going to call “Joe”, she was kinda interested in Joe but chose to be FWB with me as Joe is abit thick In the head.
So she’s leave mine on the Friday, goes up to see her mates and goes back to her on the Sunday, this was late April or so. That Sunday Reason she goes “leo leo leo, I’ve been bad and I hate myself and understand if you don’t want to speak to me again” I just came out and asked “You ****** joe didn’t you” .
Well she, felt like a punch in the gut but not like I owned her if we where a thing so I let it slide but I told her I was not happy etc.
Here comes the BS bit
Later in the coming days she said “how you feel about joe being one the scene” “what do you mean”, Her : “how you feel about me being FWB with you both”, I basically said “no thanks” and she sad she rather not do it at all with us both so I was cool with that. I was WTF after that.
Get better.
Later on she all upset on wha’ts app saying “Joe” couldn’t hack just being FWB and called it off and how she felt like “poo”. Yer is sucks don’t it, she couldn’t see the irony despite she did the same thing to me and my feelings. For the next few days she kept on talking about this guy “should I talk to him, should I wait “as while again she said they wouldn’t be compatible in a proper relationship she kinda hope it would happen still. Punch to the gut yet again for myself . At that point I should have told her to just shut up.
Funny thing I ender up she her and met all her mates at convention including “Joe” and Joe was indeed abit dumb but seemed like a nice enough chap so I had no issues with him.
Roll on today I’ve tried to date again (no 2nd dates sadly) to try and get her out of my head as for some reason I do love the woman she not knowing my feelings still as I though it just make the situation more sticky. Also tried to cut down contact, I was planning to visit as I can drive no (3 week with a car) but I know she went to visit her mates at the weekend and will do again this weekend and to be honest I couldn’t stomach know she prob will see and pine over “joe” and properly “Have fun with him again”.
Its been almost a week since I spoke to her last, I miss talking to her even as a mate and I thought about writing my feelings down and telling her before cutting off contact to get it off my chest so I can move on.
Feel like a fool, for opening up again, lonely and worthless and generally feeling like a mug for still having feelings for her despite being put through the emotional ringer . Sigh
Still its good to get it of my chest here as there’s nowhere else I can