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The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by mattyprice4004, Apr 23, 2012.

  1. secretspy

    Soldato

    Joined: Oct 3, 2005

    Posts: 5,555

    Location: England

    Ah ok that sucks. You could try finding her on Facebook if you know what she looks like, as the results sometimes show where someone is from. It wouldn't seem stalker ish if you've been talking a while. At least then she will know you didn't intentially ignore her and close your account down.
     
  2. Thecaferacer

    Hitman

    Joined: Feb 3, 2019

    Posts: 747

    Do you know where who she works for etc? Can search on linked in. Far less stalkerish than Facebook.
     
  3. Jonnybmac

    Wise Guy

    Joined: Dec 17, 2009

    Posts: 1,764

    Location: Brotton

    I know she works in biomedical, has a PhD, is in a senior tech role offering quality support and uses a process to make pure protein that target specific cells. I know her age, location that might be rough area or specific, and first name lol. I'll see how well I fair doing some investigation work as this seems like a challenge now
     
  4. .Lethal

    Soldato

    Joined: Jun 8, 2005

    Posts: 6,158

    Location: United Kingdom

    Is there nothing eharmony can do to help you out?
     
  5. Jonnybmac

    Wise Guy

    Joined: Dec 17, 2009

    Posts: 1,764

    Location: Brotton

    Their response

    I've replied back basically asking them to link me back up with xxxx, age xx, at location xxx with x amount of photos. If they are unable to do a simple thing like this then I request a full refund of my subscription since their service and site is **** poor. Will see what response I get. Feel a bit bad on the other person too who will now be left feeling like I've just completely ghosted her for no reason
     
  6. Nitefly

    Man of Honour

    Joined: Sep 24, 2005

    Posts: 31,737

    @Jonnybmac

    Her name doesn’t begin with a V does it?
     
  7. Jonnybmac

    Wise Guy

    Joined: Dec 17, 2009

    Posts: 1,764

    Location: Brotton


    I'm sure this post is laced with sarcasm but not sure how to interpret it lol
     
  8. Nitefly

    Man of Honour

    Joined: Sep 24, 2005

    Posts: 31,737

    No sarcasm at all, I just know someone of that vague description whose name begins with a V.
     
  9. mrbell1984

    Capodecina

    Joined: Aug 9, 2008

    Posts: 21,900

    It begins with a letter possibly starting from A and somewhere maybe close possibly near Z. :p
     
  10. GiraffePencils

    Mobster

    Joined: Feb 15, 2013

    Posts: 2,976

    Location: Edinburgh

    So, Sorry to drag this thread back on topic....
    It's weird now going from looking for a family home, to looking for a place to live alone.....

    Everything I want's now financially out of reach, a lot of compromise will be needed
     
  11. RxR

    Hitman

    Joined: Aug 16, 2019

    Posts: 501

    Yes. It isn't easy (I've been there once too).
     
  12. mrbell1984

    Capodecina

    Joined: Aug 9, 2008

    Posts: 21,900

    Living alone isn’t easy to start with I did it for about 14 years. Bills are the hardest part.
     
  13. GiraffePencils

    Mobster

    Joined: Feb 15, 2013

    Posts: 2,976

    Location: Edinburgh

    I've never lived alone :/
    I'll have my son half the time, which will be nice.
    I'm a pretty compulsive tidier, which his mother isn't, so I do look forward to a tidy place haha

    Have to wait till end of tax year though really, financially I'll be able to afford more and have a better deposit available.
     
  14. ChrisD.

    Capodecina

    Joined: Sep 20, 2006

    Posts: 23,614

    I can recommend a coach house, they have a lot of room and the open plan layouts are really nice. Cheaper than a house, often with the same sort of room, they're detached so no noisy neighbours through the wall or floor etc unlike a flat. My mate has just moved into one and it's lovely.
     
  15. Byron's Mum

    Associate

    Joined: Oct 12, 2019

    Posts: 29

    Location: Morpeth/Melbourne

    Have you a disgruntled ex? It sounds like something a woman may do ;)
     
  16. Andybtsn

    Don

    Joined: Oct 23, 2005

    Posts: 39,463

    Location: North Yorkshire

    I've just cleaned up all the rubbish in here. Keep on topic please.
     
  17. .Lethal

    Soldato

    Joined: Jun 8, 2005

    Posts: 6,158

    Location: United Kingdom

    Ooh what did I miss in here
     
  18. Byron's Mum

    Associate

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    Location: Morpeth/Melbourne


    Im not sure but I'd like to know too. The posts did not seem to be breaking any rules that I know of?
     
  19. Andybtsn

    Don

    Joined: Oct 23, 2005

    Posts: 39,463

    Location: North Yorkshire

    It was a load of trash not relating to the thread. Now get back to posting your relationship woes...
     
  20. PermaChanged

    Mobster

    Joined: Jan 19, 2006

    Posts: 3,489

    One mans trash is another mans treasure - this is definitely relationship related and I'm not talking about the "trash" posted