Thank you, that was very helpful and detailed answer.Well if you look at the changes that each company makes to their pad they are very bespoke. The quick disconnects and hold down arrangements being the first things to consider. Some rockets will want early release and engines throttle up some want the engines flat out before release. The rockets will have different resonances, rigidity, slosh arrangements that call for different release arrangements. Also Methane Oxygen used by New Glen and StarShip is not common and historically the kerosene oxygen of Flacon 9 isn't mega common without going into hypergolic propellants. Until very recently rockets have been ultra bespoke low use items highly optimised for their own profile and hence ground arrangements.
Edit: Ultimately any commonality is a constraint on innovation. These companies are each trying to make a vehicle that is their vision of the best solution with the technology they have.
Guess I should do some research now. I watch launches but never delved into the detail.
