The Social Networking debate

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Stole the idea for this from a thread by Grissle that was closed, and I hope that it doesn't descend into the utter ***** that that one did. However as Burnsy said this could be an interesting discussion, so I thought I'd rephrase and add to the question and see what you all think.

With social networking there seem to be four viewpoints on this topic according to various newspaper articles, news reports, magazines and general conversations.

1) It is destroying the way in which we communicate and leading to a lack of positive social interaction, along with an increase in fake or extremely brief conversations. (Basically it thought to have an over-all negative value)

2) It has redefined the way in which we communicate, allowing for faster communication to friends, family and aquaintances especially those a significant distance from home. (Basically positive)

3) It's a phase that people are going through, much as it has been on various sites for the past few years, going from the majority using myspace to bebo then facebook and twitter. (Basically it is neither positive nor negative but will disappear at some stage, probably to be replaced with something else - I feel that you can say that it is positive or negative as well as a phase)

4) What is social networking? Why would I do that? I haven't done it and still seem to have a fun and enjoyable 'network' of real friends. (basically for those who don't do it or haven't heard of it)

In the last few years this has boomed massively with the introduction of things like twitter and the big interest in facebook. People are now blogging their entire lives in status updates or tweets, eradicating the need to actively check up on each other. But is this a step forward or backward, or are we just dancing? I like what Grissle did with that sentence. :p

(I liked that paragraph whether or not part of his homework)

I don't think a poll is necessary but a disscussion on whether or not you think social networking fits these categories and why you think what you think would be a useful input in a reply.

I'll go first:
I think that social networking goes through phases, people enjoy it for a while then forget to update their status etc for a while and then all of a sudden stop using it. I think there will be some other way for people to communicate quickly and often pointlessly dreamt up in the near future. However I can see a positive side to using facebook etc, as being a student most of my friends are students and don't have house phones, if I want to ask them something but don't necessarily need an immediate answer I'll just send them a facebook message and they can get back to me. It's helpful at home where my phone reception is awful and it can be more efficient and quicker than trying to send a text. I don't see the point of twitter, facebook does all it does and more, apart from the followers bit, but then why would I want x number of people knowing what I'm doing all the time?

Also here are a few quotes from my Facebook news page (mine's in french so it's called news, umm I think it's home or something):

"....give in or give up?" - what? this means someone has to ask you what your on about and I think is a bit attention seekerish.

" Is very very bored.. And where has the sun gone?" - so what and it's behind the clouds.

"Right i have argued with myself and i'ved decided to keep the coat.....whats that smell?" - again, pointless, why would anyone particularly want to know that, and smells are, I assume, difficult to digitalise so no one online is going to know, are they?

"did some epic drunk dialling last night!! Apologies to all who fell victim...it was a long night!" - at least this will explain to a few people who got random calls from the person why they did, and they got an apology too.

Those are just some examples of what goes on facebook, apart from the drunk calls one I don't like staus updates that aren't directed at anyone in particular, fair enough if you say, "Anyone want to play some golf tonight?" But "I'm bored, going to wash my kitten" isn't very exciting. It should be used for conversations with people, and mainly to organise things imo.

So up to you lot now. (think I did ok remaking and hopefully saving that thread)
 
Good for showing e.g. group photos easily and for free. Good for keeping in contact with people anywhere.

Bad for steady loss in social abilities. You only have to see kids out and about to realise they don't perform like people of old in real life situations.
 
Good to keep in contact with friends who have moved/are travelling abroad.

Bad in that people seem to be more interested in recording the nights events on film rather than just letting things flow and enjoying themselves.
 
1) It is destroying the way in which we communicate and leading to a lack of positive social interaction, along with an increase in fake or extremely brief conversations. (Basically it thought to have an over-all negative value)

I sent a message to my wife asking if she fancied a quick shag when she got home from work.

That resulted in lots of positive social interaction :-)

I nearly posted it on her wall though - now that would have recd some not-so positive social interaction from her dad I guess!

Although if she is now pregnant, I'm shopping Facebook to the CSA!
 
I think it's probably just a bit of a phase. It might take a while, but it will fade out to be replaced with other forms of communication as and when they are discovered. And I guess the way you view social networking sites depends on how you use them yourself. I only use Facebook, check it once or twice a day, maybe change my status to reflect the days events, see what others are up to, where they've been on their holidays etc. then I get on with my day. Facebook is great fun, but I lived without it before and I'm sure I could live without it again.

I don't know if I 100% agree with the whole 'it's destroying social interaction' thing. I was pretty young when text speak took off, then the internet, instant messaging and stuff. I grew up with it, but I'm perfectly capable of having a decent face to face conversation with someone, making new friends etc. I suppose it just depends on the person and how lazy they are really...
 
Its a good way to kill time and have a nosey at people you didnt really like from school (which turned out to be most people these days), though its FULL of people uploading basically the same drunk pictures (and people tagging you in them and so on and so forth) as some sort of competition to prove you have a life to the rest of the facebook universe...

Its also good for tormenting people who are being coupely (and consequently disgusting and gay) with the phrase "puts on robe and wizards hat"...... (note facebook doesnt encourage maturity)
 
I think it increases communication, while it might seem like it reduces it you generally only add people youknow irl, you get to know their intrests and whie they care going out, youcan speak to people whenever you want via chat.

it is very good for organising events and getting everone you know to atent instead of a mass text message.

Compared to forums it is much more sociable, which i find ironic considering the location of this post. :)
 
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