Uh-oh a girl thread...

[TW]Fox;18005213 said:
How did people manage to form relationships before the internet? Did Mankind almost die out before internet message boards appeared to help man find woman?
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No, I think most people were doing just fine before tinternets, lolbook and txting became de rigeur amongst 'the kids'.

Whilst it can be funny in a black comedy kind of way, it's also extremely sad. We had the guy last week who almost refused to NOT text some girl out because that was 'the done thing'. To speak to someone (and therefore not text) was seen as weird or destined for failure. It's astonishingly depressing.
 
[TW]Fox;18005213 said:
How did people manage to form relationships before the internet? Did Mankind almost die out before internet message boards appeared to help man find woman?
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No, people probably asked their real friends, but now they don't have to look like a pansy in real life for asking advise, just on teh interwebz.
 
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What are you risking anyway? If she starts dating someone else, what happens to your friendship - basically it will be dead. Or worse she will come crying to you every time they have a tiff.
 
hood1971 said:
What are you risking anyway? If she starts dating someone else, what happens to your friendship - basically it will be dead. Or worse she will come crying to you every time they have a tiff.
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Perfect. He can lull her into a false sense of security. Then rape her.
 
Just go for it and kiss her- if she doesn't reciprocate, at least you know it's never gonna happen. If she does, you get to do the no-underpants dance.
 
Seriously why are men (me included) so utterly terrible at this kinda thing?

But yeh go for it op you really seem to like the girl!
 
OP: DO IT FFS.

Nothing worse than letting crap like this trickle on by. Your friendship will develop, you'll see what a great girl she is only to find that she has moved on in terms of relationship.

Cue you getting on really well with her and yet having to grit your teeth at the eventual boyfriend who you KNOW isn't as good as you. Can't really blame her though.
 
AlyCat said:
Seriously why are men (me included) so utterly terrible at this kinda thing?

But yeh go for it op you really seem to like the girl!
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Lack of confidence is my guess.
Sounds to me like the girl is interested in the op so it's best not to waste too much time otherwise she will just lose interest. Once that happens you won't stand a chance really.
So act now!
 
I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago, me and a friend got very close. Loads of texts, usually initiated by her...if i wouldnt reply within 10mins I'd get another asking if i was "ignoring her today?". Got many invites to go over to hers which is a 2hour drive each way. After a few months urming and arring, i finally told her i had feelings of more than friendship for her. It went badly, she wasn't interested in anything more than friends and then reassured me that my confession wouldn't harm our friendship.

We had a trip to London already planned so we went there with a couple of mutual friends. I think i got 10 words out of her all day. We don't talk or see each other anymore.

Gutted at the time, took me quite a while to get over it. I'm glad i told her how i felt, i'm not sure how i would've felt if i'd never told her and see her hook up with another guy. It was such a great weight lifted off my shoulders, although rejection is never nice.

Good luck mate.
 
Poppy said:
I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago, me and a friend got very close. Loads of texts, usually initiated by her...if i wouldnt reply within 10mins I'd get another asking if i was "ignoring her today?". Got many invites to go over to hers which is a 2hour drive each way. After a few months urming and arring, i finally told her i had feelings of more than friendship for her. It went badly, she wasn't interested in anything more than friends and then reassured me that my confession wouldn't harm our friendship.

We had a trip to London already planned so we went there with a couple of mutual friends. I think i got 10 words out of her all day. We don't talk or see each other anymore.

Gutted at the time, took me quite a while to get over it. I'm glad i told her how i felt, i'm not sure how i would've felt if i'd never told her and see her hook up with another guy. It was such a great weight lifted off my shoulders, although rejection is never nice.

Good luck mate.
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She sounded odd as hell :/
 
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