Sorry, I'll be clearer, they noticed that it was clearly a scene with a specific female empowerment message, and no one had any issue with the message, it was the delivery. Some thought "badass", some thought "whatever", and some through "clumsy".
It was strongly sign-posted, but the method of said sign-posting is what people are having differing opinions on.
To reiterate, no-one I know that has seen the film did not notice this specific female empowerment message (as opposed to just seeing a battle happening).