On a side note, I've begun to notice that we have simialr tastes with regards to pretty much all media haha!
You clearly have impeccable taste
In regards to your spoiler, I agree,
it's just that it's never given more than a cursory exploration into his life so the impact later in the movie isn't as powerful.
The 2nd is surprisingly good, not first movie quality but Brolin and Del Toro are such strong leads, they carry it along nicely.