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What to do about anonymous harassment

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by eviled, 19 Aug 2020.

  1. eviled


    Joined: 25 Sep 2016

    Posts: 811

    A friend has asked me for help and I’m not really sure what he can do.

    For months he has been receiving intermittent calls from prostitutes around the country shouting at him for standing them up at various hotels. Maybe every 1-2 months.

    more recently he has been receiving abuse from what appears to be a Canadian mobile number via WhatsApp.

    then the other day he received a home STD test kit in his girlfriend’s name thar someone had ordered using her personal information via a local online sexual health serviceNHS service.

    I told him to go to the police with a log of events and as much evidence as he had.
    They have said its harassment but they are too busy to investigate low level crime like this and apologised and that was that.

    He’s worried as things seem to be escalating but isn’t really sure what to do next.

    Any ideas?
  2. arctine


    Joined: 7 Oct 2009

    Posts: 4,078

    I'd just carry on with my life tbh.
  3. Chris Wilson


    Joined: 28 Nov 2003

    Posts: 6,141

    Location: Shropshire

    Sell the kit on Ebay, never look a gift horse in the mouth. He'll never make a businessman at this rate ;)
  4. MissChief


    Joined: 17 Jul 2010

    Posts: 20,904

    Generally these things are done by someone known to one or both of you. It’s very rare to pick on a complete stranger. An acrimonious ex BF or husband, some woman who feels slighted for some reason.
  5. eviled


    Joined: 25 Sep 2016

    Posts: 811

    There’s an ex-wife, weird work colleague and estranged friend it could be, or any number of work clients. he doesn’t have contact with any of them and has been ignoring it for a year but now his girlfriend is getting upset and anxious as she was the most recent recipient of it
  6. jsmoke


    Joined: 17 Jun 2012

    Posts: 10,627

    'A threatened man lives long'.

    Not a lot you can do really, must be pretty creepy but I'm sure it happens quite a lot. You'll be expecting a horses head on your doorstep soon or a masked man with a gun at your front door. Welcome to the underbelly.
  7. Chris Wilson


    Joined: 28 Nov 2003

    Posts: 6,141

    Location: Shropshire

    My money would go on the ex wife....
  8. Usel

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 14 Jan 2003

    Posts: 1,113

    If they start getting parcels from Amazon then it's Feek.
  9. Pez


    Joined: 20 Oct 2002

    Posts: 4,967

    Location: Warwickshire

    Change phone number, bin kit.

    That'd sort most of it :)
  10. Feek


    Joined: 16 Oct 2002

    Posts: 233,056

    Location: In the radio shack

    Shhhhh ;)
  11. sideways14a

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 31 Aug 2017

    Posts: 2,209

    Didnt happen to save the numbers did he?

    Asking for a friend, er who wants... to ... er harass someone :p
  12. [FnG]magnolia


    Joined: 29 Aug 2007

    Posts: 27,213

    Location: Auckland

    I would watch this film.
  13. Rroff

    Man of Honour

    Joined: 13 Oct 2006

    Posts: 77,546

    Amazon doesn't stock STD test kits or prostitutes apparently according to Feek's latest post.
  14. chroniclard


    Joined: 23 Apr 2014

    Posts: 19,857

    Location: Hertfordshire

    Hire a PI and/or freelance ninja.
  15. FortuitousFluke


    Joined: 7 Jul 2011

    Posts: 4,393

    Location: Cambridgeshire

    Why only freelance? What about a big 6 consultancy ninja? I mean the day rates will be horrendous but you've got to assume you're getting some sweet ass ninja for your money.
  16. chroniclard


    Joined: 23 Apr 2014

    Posts: 19,857

    Location: Hertfordshire

    Freelance lone wolf style ninja, gotta be tougher than some corporate goon ninja?
  17. dowie

    Capo Crimine

    Joined: 29 Jan 2008

    Posts: 53,046

    WTF :D:D:D

    So rather than getting a bunch of pizzas he didn’t order he’s got some angry hookers?

    Perhaps one possible question to ask here - of the people you’ve got as suspects do any of them *not* know his current address? Given these woman have been turning up to hotels then calling.

    Like if you were going to seek revenge in this way then you’d perhaps do something to inconvenience him more directly - like none of the boomers have turned up at his house etc...?

    Did he ask how they got his number? Like presumably the person doing this didn’t call/text them? Unless calling from a withheld number? If they’ve had to e-mail or use a website then presumably their IP was logged by someone.
  18. Mysterae_

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 15 Sep 2008

    Posts: 1,012

    Dowie's right, the prozzies must have gotten their details from somewhere, how about asking them how and when?

    Not trying to be Sherlock here, but who do they know that:
    - knows where they live,
    - knows their mobile number,
    - knows the name of their partner,
    - has a link with Canada,
    - has a grudge against them

    Perhaps get a new mobile number and slowly give it out to certain people, when the abuse comes through on that line then they may have a likely suspect.
  19. Arsonist

    Wise Guy

    Joined: 11 Jul 2012

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    Location: Nomadic

    This is one of the most GD posts I've ever seen. I have no advice for you, except to continue posting updates here.
  20. vanpeebles


    Joined: 22 Aug 2004

    Posts: 7,606

    You best nail that letterbox up asap, I mean your friends letterbox!