Why can't woman ever just say what they mean..!!

iv-tecman

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You know, I often wondered why there was so many relationship threads in this section of the forum, right up there with the ebay questions, or spec me this and spec me that..

But recently been getting into the dating scene myself after a while out of it, been taking a girl out for a few dates, even posted on here asking how to settle a first date case of jitters..

But after a few dates, that darn girl left me confused with about as much complex issues in my mind as I care to have.. Mind games were amazing... I'll not bore with the details, were just not going to get this going -but this girl hasn't even got the decency to say - 'lets take it no further' instead does the 'ooh I'm too busy at the moment' and 'my week is all took up with working late' yeah right... Why they can't just say outright I will never understand... Impression I get is she's keeping me around for those lonely nights were she might need a quick date... No..!! About time to send the polite thanks but no thanks and catch another on these fable online dating sites...

Ah its a game isn't it... Dating... Why do we put ourselves through such pain... hopefully miss right will come along soon... PLEASE.!!! :D Another mind bender isn't welcome... :p
 
blitz2163 said:
Because we cant be arsed doing our own cooking and cleaning?
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Nah - that's what mum's are for and you know it...!! :D:eek:

- j/k. We do it for - well we ALL now what for... Reason the p**n industry is soo popular I guess going on what I've had to put up with in the last few months... Ooh.. Cynical.. :D
 
They do that to test you. And you're failing.

Tell her YOU'RE busy. End calls before she does. Act a little angry when she messes you about then don't call / speak to her for a week or two. If she likes you she'll start playing nice.

Nutters the lot of em.
 
The moment a woman says what she really means, the sun will implode and a black hole will be formed at the centre of the solar system. That is why they should never, ever.
 
I don't necessarily mean be horrible to them, treat em mean and all that. Who knows if that works.

But I think girls try and make you jump through hoops, and if you obey like a nice little doggie, then they'll get bored and find a new toy.

If you show they don't have a hold over you, they may not be more attracted to you, but they'll be intrigued, and respect you more. A few times I've genuinely had no interest in some girl who's been after me, and I've been cool and showed that I had zero interest, it just makes em go for you even more. They don't take rejection at all well in my experience. It's okay for them to have a 'type' and for countless guys to not be their 'type'. But try that one on them, they'll go bananas. "What's wrong with me???!!" they'll scream.

For women, being attractive / appealing must mean in an absolute sense, to every man in the world. They're either sexy and attractive or they're not. If you don't find them attractive, even if they don't like you, it's a real dent in their self esteem.

Anyway, experience and advice all goes out the window in reality usually, cos as has already been established, they're freakin nuts :)
 
Dude, this is pretty much the only power in life she will have. The more the mind games, the smaller the person.

Seriously. (Oh, and probably very, very childish)
 
Don't lie, you love the idea of being her quick date. Sex without the complications, can't be bad.
 
You become unreactive to such games by having a busy life with lots of friends, and in particular lots of options when it comes to women. As such, you don't care whether one doesn't pan out, because you're going to go out with some other person instead tonight and have a great time.

You only get like you have, inside your head after a few dates when you're coming from a position of scarcity (with respect to women in your life). :o :(
 
banja said:
They do that to test you. And you're failing.

Tell her YOU'RE busy. End calls before she does. Act a little angry when she messes you about then don't call / speak to her for a week or two. If she likes you she'll start playing nice.

Nutters the lot of em.
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Has someone been reading David DeAngelo stuff? :p
 
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