Women and Eye contact

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when a woman refuses/rarely makes eye contact with you or if she does she looks away really quickly

does it mean she likes you but is too embarrassed to look at you

or does it mean she is terrified/disgusted by you and cant bare to look :(

not that im in such a situation just want to find out for a mate :rolleyes:

thanks :)
 
Sem said:
not that im in such a situation just want to find out for a mate :rolleyes:
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A good psychologist can help you with your schizophrenia :p

It's probably shyness. I don't think she'd find you/friend so revolting that she felt the need to look away.
 
Open your eyes really wide and stare intently. She'll come around in no time.

p.s always make sure to be carrying a copy of 'Combat Knife Professional' for that added touch. Women love the rough type.
 
Sem said:
when a woman refuses/rarely makes eye contact with you or if she does she looks away really quickly

does it mean she likes you but is too embarrassed to look at you

or does it mean she is terrified/disgusted by you and cant bare to look :(

not that im in such a situation just want to find out for a mate :rolleyes:

thanks :)
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It means that she cant make eye contact. This means that she is nervous or does not feel she can be 'socially honest' (or relaxed, for want of a better term)...

But as far as reading something specific out of it, there is no way that can be given without knowing the exact reasons. Generally eye contact represents dominance and confidence.

There are lots of things that lead a person to look away, such as dishonesty or generally low-self esteem, feeling anxious, feeling embarrased... take your pick
 
If she looks embarrassed, she's probably being shy. If she looks disgusted, distressed or bored upon looking away, she wishes you didn't keep looking at her.

Not rocket science, really...
 
Vanilla said:
Open your eyes really wide and stare intently. She'll come around in no time.

p.s always make sure to be carrying a copy of 'Combat Knife Professional' for that added touch. Women love the rough type.
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Or she will think your a knife wielding murderer!
 
The best way is to ask her... draw yourself up to your full height and stare into her eyes and shout "WHY WONT YOU LOOK AT ME? WHAT ARE YOU HIDING?"

Works smoove with da ladies...
 
I went through a phase when i rarely made eye contact with anyone. I was having a hard time, was shy and just felt uncomfortable. Once you get to know people it will get easier. Tell your 'mate' to stick at it.
 
This came up in Nix's chatup thread:

http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17558797

And here was my staring based nugget from that...

One last thing tried this evening;
If your not sure if some bird is checking you out and need to be sure before going over, have a look at your watch and then count to say 4, then look at her, if she looks at her watch then she was checking you out - apparently others will mimic what they are intrerested in - dunno what happens if she aint got a watch though. Looking at your watch makes her curious and her brain will wonder what you are waitin for, when you look at her shes suddenly under pressure to figure out what you were doin so she'll look at her watch, as its the only source of info she has, at least to determine the time of whatever you are waiting for.

My OcUK homework for the day done.
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Explain to her eyes are a gift, and if she doesn't use them perhaps someone else would like them - make sure your copy of 'combat knife professional' is in full view...

:p

Seriously, im sick
 
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