Women are the strangest creatures!

allot of ladies whom are around my age, this day and age dont seem to know what they want, they also dont want relationships anymore.

sucks really.

usually the decent ones are taken by idiots too. you can never win. i gave up and im happy on my own for now lol.

For you op, she either wants a **** buddy or she is bored and playing with your mind.

if you dont want either then you might aswell leave it, if she cares she will be ringing you back.
 
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Maybe she even just wants someone to "control". Know some girls who like being able to call on guys whenever for no particular reason.

I'd keep away
 
2 hours on the phone? Either you are a woman (in which case this is a hot lesbo thread - go for it and keep us posted) or you seriously need to step away from the phone, check your old chap is still there and find a new opportunity with the ladies.
 
If you continue the relationship in this way she will probably always regard you as a friend only. And if you have fallen for her this will be hard.

If you want more, the best you can do is tell her it will be too hard to just be her friend and say you would rather to break off contact until she can decide what she wants. She might call you in a couple of months or never.
 
2 hours on the phone..!!

"you hang up"
"no you"
"No you"
"Ok on the count of 3"
"1....2....3"


"you're still there!"

zkcdhangup.png


Sounds like she's taking advantage here tbh.
 
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Sorry to say but when a chick says the I wanna be single for a while line it generally means I don't want a relationship with you.

9/10 times she'll be dating someone else within a few weeks/months.
 
I think we need a pic of this MILF to decide whats the best course of action.

(Cant believe nobody asked for a pic yet!)
 
Well is sound advice on the OCuk forum as normal, from Ditch the b*tch to smashing in pastry !
All very good advice !

Now if she said ‘Lets be friends’ or ‘let take it slow’
What I think she is saying is that she is interested and wants to do thinks in the correct order and time frame.
So it seems she has jump in some beds way too soon in previous relationships.

Also you may like children, however this is someone else’s child, not yours and that MAKES a big difference.

This girl better be bl**dy amazingly pretty and normal, if not you are in for a roller coaster of good times and grief !
What about the Ex, is this the same Ex as the Childs father ! ?
If not there are now 2 Ex’s to deal with and one will be coming to the front door once a week or month.

Think very carefully on this, perhap's take her at her word, and act just like a friend, see were it goes ! !
 
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