Well is sound advice on the OCuk forum as normal, from Ditch the b*tch to smashing in pastry !
All very good advice !
Now if she said ‘Lets be friends’ or ‘let take it slow’
What I think she is saying is that she is interested and wants to do thinks in the correct order and time frame.
So it seems she has jump in some beds way too soon in previous relationships.
Also you may like children, however this is someone else’s child, not yours and that MAKES a big difference.
This girl better be bl**dy amazingly pretty and normal, if not you are in for a roller coaster of good times and grief !
What about the Ex, is this the same Ex as the Childs father ! ?
If not there are now 2 Ex’s to deal with and one will be coming to the front door once a week or month.
Think very carefully on this, perhap's take her at her word, and act just like a friend, see were it goes ! !