Depends on what the rest of the family have said to the grandson, they might have told him to go for all we know.
It took about 6 weeks for my aunts funeral to go ahead as the place she wanted to hold the ceremony was only a small village church but was fully booked, in that time I think 2 people went on holiday and no-one thought anything of it.
This has been arranged with the widow and her grandson (who’s the one with a holiday to take) I think what’s narked the deceased’s side of the family is they weren’t consulted and one of his brothers has cancelled his own pre booked holiday because of the death and expectations of a relatively quick funeral.
It’s difficult, probably no definitive right or wrong ultimately but it’s certainly prolonged the hurt for his sister, my friend, who wants the funeral done and dusted, she hates the thought of him sat (lay?) in a freezer instead of being laid to rest.
Thanks for the replies, whilst I haven’t shown her this thread, I’ve given her a few of the opposing views given in response and I think she sees the situation a bit more positively now.