I must say after reading this thread I am hugely disappointed, my reasons are thus:
1) OP posted another women thread, fair enough.
2) OP has audacity to actually reply and read the advice given.
3) OP has the gaul to do something about it IRL!
4) OP decides, as if the above isn't enough, to actually update his own thread with reports of success and offer advice to forum members in similar situations.
I don't know who you are OP, where you live or what you do, but you don't belong on OcUK
(In all seriousness well played).
Cheers buddy

