This is simply not true - modern diesel engines have the following failure prone items not fitted to petrol engines*:
a) Direct Injection
b) Turbochargers
c) Diesel Particulate Filters
They also have disprooprtionately high failure rates on dual mass flywheels as a result of the higher flywheel torque outputs.
* Some petrol engine cars these days are now supplied with things like direct injection. Somewhat unsuprisingly they are also proving less reliable than petrol engines without this technology.
I can't think of a way to put this without upsetting you, but your diesel Vectra is not 'almost silent' at all. I have driven numerous diesel engined cars from various manufacturers and the only one that came close to being 'almost silent' was the very latest F10 530d. Even that STILL had the diesel thrum at idle.
Sorry, but your Vectra isn't some sort of rare exception to the rule. If it's a 1.9 CTDI 150 then I can personally attest to the fact it isn't virtually silent.
Wait so its an older Vectra diesel? And you still think it's silent, quiet, is no less refined than a petrol engine and offers flawless reliability? Just lol.