A method I use for our businesses.
Shred the cabbage as finely as you can.
Wash it till the water is no longer couloured and runs clear, as this will negate the ' burning'.
Add :
Salt and pepper ( pepper replaces the bite from the washed out colouring)
Fresh lemon juice ( not that bottled stuff, I mean a fresh lemon)
Olive oil ( virgin preferably )
Give it all a good mix in the bowl...voila!
You don't want the cabbage to be too oily so as above post a 1:1 tablespoon ratio with oil and lemon.
You can also add a pinch of sugar to sweeten.
note: I am a Turk, I own Kebab shops