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I think she is cheating..!
Okay, this is not like me to write this sort of thing on the internet. But I feel I need some help, support, I don’t know what I need I’m very confused and worried.
I am in my mid 30’s, my girlfriend of 1 year is in her mid 20’s and without sounding soft, I love her very much, more than anything in the world. She is my world.
She moved in with me after 4 months, into my house and things have been brilliant, we have had 2 holidays and in 6 weeks we have another holiday at a family member’s apartment abroad.
Now I’m the nosey sort. Some of you will think that bad and I fully agree. But I do it to protect myself I guess.
Last week one day I was at work and she kind of vanished, I couldn’t get through to her at my home, or on her mobile, she says she was at her parents house at 5pm but when I looked at her phone later on she actually rang her parents home at 5pm.?
So it appears she is texting a guy from her work when I am not around.
I was on her laptop this morning and going through our photos on it and noticed in “received files” from MSN Hotmail/ Messenger a log when she spoke to her sister last night whilst I was at work.
It read along the lines of “YEAH he just text’d me, this and that, nothing actual about the contents of the text but just that they were texting each other. She had in her phone 14 sent messages but the message counter said 20.
I don’t know what to do, if I confront her, I automatically look like I have been spying on her. I think one thing is I’m so worried about if we split, I let a family member down by not using there holiday apartment. She texts me saying ‘I love you’ and she is looking forward to this and that, she cooks for me, bedroom life is perfect…..
This is why I’m confused and don’t know what to do.
Thanks….
Please no silly responses.
Okay, this is not like me to write this sort of thing on the internet. But I feel I need some help, support, I don’t know what I need I’m very confused and worried.
I am in my mid 30’s, my girlfriend of 1 year is in her mid 20’s and without sounding soft, I love her very much, more than anything in the world. She is my world.
She moved in with me after 4 months, into my house and things have been brilliant, we have had 2 holidays and in 6 weeks we have another holiday at a family member’s apartment abroad.
Now I’m the nosey sort. Some of you will think that bad and I fully agree. But I do it to protect myself I guess.
Last week one day I was at work and she kind of vanished, I couldn’t get through to her at my home, or on her mobile, she says she was at her parents house at 5pm but when I looked at her phone later on she actually rang her parents home at 5pm.?
So it appears she is texting a guy from her work when I am not around.
I was on her laptop this morning and going through our photos on it and noticed in “received files” from MSN Hotmail/ Messenger a log when she spoke to her sister last night whilst I was at work.
It read along the lines of “YEAH he just text’d me, this and that, nothing actual about the contents of the text but just that they were texting each other. She had in her phone 14 sent messages but the message counter said 20.
I don’t know what to do, if I confront her, I automatically look like I have been spying on her. I think one thing is I’m so worried about if we split, I let a family member down by not using there holiday apartment. She texts me saying ‘I love you’ and she is looking forward to this and that, she cooks for me, bedroom life is perfect…..
This is why I’m confused and don’t know what to do.
Thanks….
Please no silly responses.
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