Relationship has come to an end

I cant belive this thread is going off topic. This guy is obviously upset and it seems people are just taking the ****, including a don o_O
 
Random_23 said:
I cant belive this thread is going off topic. This guy is obviously upset and it seems people are just taking the ****, including a don o_O
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this is the internet, its full of stangers.

Commiserations to the OP, im in the same boat but Ive not asked you bunch of no hopers advice for obvious reasons.
 
has the now ex got any fitty friends/sister/mother :)

suggest invite em back to yours for some bedroom shenanigans and see how long you stay amicable :)
 
I though those replys would be posted. Yes I do aggree in a way with you all about the sleeping thing, but like I said its going to be the same as it has for the last 6 months where we did sleep together but nothing happened.

She isnt going to fidn anyone else yet. I belive her as her work load and Uni is taking over her life, hence us breaking up. Once either of us does find someone else than we shal re-evaluate the situation. We will be talking more later tonight about the whole thing so I can let you know how things will progress.
 
Random_23 said:
I cant belive this thread is going off topic. This guy is obviously upset and it seems people are just taking the ****, including a don o_O
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Hey I'm allowed to poke fun at people too ya know :p

Joking aside, it'd be interesting to hear how you plan on actually going about it, I mean will you now wear clothes in bed instead etc? What if you wake up cuddling?
 
I aint a no hoper son. I have a GF a full time job (posting from work) My own house etc etc want me to go on ? He's only sharing his feelings. He may struggle to speak to others about such things and doing it to strangers on the internet might be his way of getting it off his chest.

regarding you section8 you my friend are a Loser! If you have nothing nice to post dont post on the thread ?
 
tbh the first reply nailed it. All I would add is that both of you will start thinking about other people faster than seems likely.
 
Sorry to hear about your realtionship.

But won't you find it awkward over time that you're living with her/sleeping same bed and stuff. People do say things, and then go back on them.

What if you get a huge b0ner at night WHAT WILL YOU DO THEN?!:eek:
 
I have two questions

Were you ever properly in love with her and how will you ensure this doesn't happen again in a new relationship?

I see this happening more and more and as people have higher stress and longer hours. But there must have been a breakdown in communication long ago to get where you are now. You must have known this was coming? If I loved the person there is no way I would let my relationship fall apart so easily?
 
Hard lines OP.

I'm glad it's been reasonable amicable so far, but like some of the others here, I would think about a different room to sleep in (sofa bed?) might be the best approach.
 
Vita said:
Sorry to hear about your realtionship.

But won't you find it awkward over time that you're living with her/sleeping same bed and stuff. People do say things, and then go back on them.

What if you get a huge b0ner at night WHAT WILL YOU DO THEN?!:eek:
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Priceless:D
















Though a question I was just about to ask, no doubt the lines may be blurry
 
Seriously you need to cut her out. Makes it so much harder trying to be friends and carrying on like normal. Get her out of your life and you can move on.
 
The sleeping in same bed thing is a little weird - I mean it sounds like you've just accepted the relationship isn't working but have made it impossible to find anyone else or get over each other properly.
 
It sounds to me as if you both still have strong feelings for each other. If there was nothing essentially wrong between the two of you then it could be worth working on your relationship if you want to try again. There are lots of ways to be closer and more intimate and to bring all the affection back and it usually isn't difficult.

All relationships can get stale after a while so you need to keep working at it and keeping things alive. I find there are ups and downs but when you really love each other the downs don't matter so much and you get through them together.

If you really do just want to split and stay apart then living together isn't going to work, one of you will find someone else at some point and the other will be hurt I would think and it will make the whole thing uncomfortable.
 
busman said:
'Split up sex' is the best sex. ;)

Me and the gf where like rabbits when we split up.
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Same here but even thats stopped now :( :p

This is pretty much the same that happened with me and the ex back in August. The relationship just was'nt there anymore and we decided to call it a day and still be friends. We are till this day. Still see each other regularly.

Not sure how its going to be like when oen of us gets a new partner. Its not going to be me anyway for a while ;)
 
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