gah! girlfriend problems..yes yes i know

DaZzZa

DaZzZa

DaZzZa

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well iv been with my girlfriend for about a year, we broke up for 3 month and she went with someone else after we split then she realised how much she missed and loved me (she says) and how well i treated her compaired to other blokes,

anyway we got back together 8-9 weeks ago all was great went on holiday together 5 weeks ago but since we got back we havent had any kind of sexual activity on her behalf, no idea whats wrong with her and its making me realy nervous and insecure (making me feel like theirs someone else, or something wrong with me in the looks'/sexual way).

ive explained to her that a sex life is important to me and i enjoy it afterall who doesnt at our age (19 her and 21 me). but still nothing gives and im getting very frustrated. im at the point now where i dont know what to do hence me comming onto here.
so is their anyone that can offer some sensible advice please?

thanx
Daz
 
i tryed but all i get is "nothing" or "im not intrested in sex" correct me if im wrong here please, i do alsorts for her that she likes that i aint keen on but isnt that selfish?
 
what was the sex like before you split?

sounds like trouble is brewing to me, but you need to get her talking!
 
Yes, she sounds like she's being difficult for difficults sake...

Maybe even stringing you along to be honest until something "better" comes along :(

Edit, i know thats a bit of an assumption, and the classic line of "nothing" means she will tell you in time, usually have to just give her space till she decides to, as bothering her will just make things worse, from my experience.
 
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DaZzZa said:
i tryed but all i get is "nothing" or "im not intrested in sex" correct me if im wrong here please, i do alsorts for her that she likes that i aint keen on but isnt that selfish?
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Tell her to grow up and tel u whats wrong, or just tell her to sling her hook. Ive treated an ex really well and did anything for her and then she comes out with comments like "im not interested in sex" and just being funny towards me, so i left her. You shouldn't have taken her back in the first place mate, even more so that she went with someone in the mean time. Giver her a choice, tell me whats wrong or get lost. ** young and u don't need **** like this now, i've learned the hard way with being with a muppet of a girlfriend.
 
gjrc said:
what was the sex like before you split?

sounds like trouble is brewing to me, but you need to get her talking!
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well it wasnt ideal, we would have a good sex session a few times a week i realy enjoyed it and so did she. she is a total nightmare to talk to though
 
In all seriousness most women I know wouldn't have sex with someone unless they felt a connection to them (with a few exceptions).

If she isn't wanting to do it with you then in all likelyhood she doesn't like you like that any more, maybe shes deliberatly stringing you along now for what she can get or maybe she is hoping the feelings will come back.

Your best bet is to talk to her and stress how this is a relationship breaking issue, because if you arn't having sex then you are really just good friends.
 
Sounds like shes stringing you along until she can find someone who treats her the way you do, but also she really likes.

There is absolutely NO WAY i would take someone back if they had split with me and spent time with another guy, then wanted to get back. Not. A. Chance.
 
if you can't communicate with each other probably you can't expect to have a healthy relationship really.

second thoughts on her part maybe?
 
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Tell her to grow up and tel u whats wrong, or just tell her to sling her hook. Ive treated an ex really well and did anything for her and then she comes out with comments like "im not interested in sex" and just being funny towards me, so i left her. You shouldn't have taken her back in the first place mate, even more so that she went with someone in the mean time. Giver her a choice, tell me whats wrong or get lost. ** young and u don't need **** like this now, i've learned the hard way with being with a muppet of a girlfriend.
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Saved me typing a similar post. Good words.
 
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