Three months is still very much early days, a lot of people being too harsh on you Bes.
Inviting her to "meet the parents" (or vice versa) can feel a bit too "serious", particularily in such a new relationship. I know what you mean. She's still relatively new to you and to incorporate her into what is a very close family orientated occasion can definitely feel quite awkward. Some people are really blowing it out of proportion IMO.
The fact that it's Christmas does add an emotional twist on the situation though. It's a difficult one, it really is. I think I might end up giving in and letting her stay though. Like other's have said it depends how much you value the relationship.
Inviting her to "meet the parents" (or vice versa) can feel a bit too "serious", particularily in such a new relationship. I know what you mean. She's still relatively new to you and to incorporate her into what is a very close family orientated occasion can definitely feel quite awkward. Some people are really blowing it out of proportion IMO.
The fact that it's Christmas does add an emotional twist on the situation though. It's a difficult one, it really is. I think I might end up giving in and letting her stay though. Like other's have said it depends how much you value the relationship.