Do you find overweight people attractive?

JodieO

JodieO

JodieO

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I saw this link and wondered what people thought

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/li...ews.html?in_article_id=509208&in_page_id=1773

She does look very different in the top picture compared to the bottom one but does it matter? What if the person you married/lived with/are partner to put on a lot of weight? Would it bother you?

Personally I don't think I'd still be as physically attracted to my husband if he put on loads of weight but I'd still love him. That's not being superficial imo as you can't really control who you're physically attracted to. Obviously personality means a lot more but I don't think I would feel the same if someone was obese.

I'm not talking about a little overweight but really obese.
 
No way, find it absolutely repulsive.

Unfortunately being fat is now considered acceptable in society. If this wasn't the case we would have an obesity epidemic putting strain on the NHS just because people can't control what they put into their mouth.
 
yes it would. i dont think im shallow by saying i dont find anyone in that state that bit attractive. weight bothers me. if my GF put on weight big time, we would no doubt split up.

same probably goes for me. we're a healthy fit couple, it wouldnt be the same if we didnt find eachother physically attractive.
 
Stupid Daily Mail reader said:
Wow. She is gorgeous and I'm glad she knows it!

- Salma [probably fat], England
Click to expand...

She's not gorgeous. She's fat. Fat is not gorgeous, whatever you look like.
 
Highly overweight people are not physically attractive to the majority of people. I don't think this can really be disputed.

However, once you're beyond the initial physical attraction stage, it doesn't bother me, nor I feel would it bother most people, if someone was a bit overweight. Though it depends how you define it. Medically, a lot of people are 'overweight' that (from memory) many guys on here would describe as 'curvy' or someone 'with a bit of meat on her'

Verging on obese, is a different matter.

In short : It depends :p
 
Wow they were a hot couple in '97! If I'd been with the person for a long time (say 10 years or more) and they put on a lot of weight, then I don't think it would be as much of a problem. But if it was still settling down and we were young and fit and not able to do the things we wanted to do because of it, I would be motivated to motivate them to lose the weight.
 
I really like it, I think she’s hot, I still find some thinner women attractive. But I do prefer the bigger woman, not the ones with rolls of fat spewing over their pants and 4 chins. There is a bit of a difference and I'm not ashamed to admit to it. :p
 
Luckily the girl I'm with makes efforts to stay in-shape for her self, which is something I look for in a girl. Some girls let themselves go once they have found a life partner, my sister did with her boyfriend, I don't think it bothers him at the moment... give it time though.
 
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