Given the choice: a job you love, or a job that pays well...

Why is that?

Did the high paid job. well ok 30k ish, in London was far too stressful would rather do something i love now, for myself and not because the job needs done just to pay bills. If i get enough to live off and and happy that suits me perfectly.

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Not really out for No 1, but if they do the same and find something they love...
But most people don't. If you've two children and a wife earning an average age, should you take it upon yourself to drop a job you love in favour of a job that will provide them with much, much more?

As I said, I don't actually know which one I'd go for: I'm just trying to look at it from all angles.

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But most people don't. If you've two children and a wife earning an average age, should you take it upon yourself to drop a job you love in favour of a job that will provide them with much, much more?

As I said, I don't actually know which one I'd go for: I'm just trying to look at it from all angles.

:)

Yes , IMO
 
But most people don't. If you've two children and a wife earning an average age, should you take it upon yourself to drop a job you love in favour of a job that will provide them with much, much more?

As I said, I don't actually know which one I'd go for: I'm just trying to look at it from all angles.

:)

If it made me unhappy?

No. But I personally wouldn't have children until I felt that finances would never be trouble again. Thats me though.
 
All you've said is a job that pays well, no teling on how the people are, if you'll enjoy it, so i'd weigh it all up :)

But at the end of the day, if this can set you up for life in ten years, i'd do 5 years, then when moderately comfortable, get a job that make me happy :p

Happy compromise there!
 
If it made me unhappy? No. But I personally wouldn't have children until I felt that finances would never be trouble again. Thats me though.
Oh, I'm not suggesting this hypothetical family are heading for the breadline. I'm just suggesting that having more cash would be beneficial for them (obviously!). You don't have to be a millionaire to raise children in a comfortable environment!
 
One should not forget that someones 'money' is another persons small change. As the money grows more often than not the love falls off at an expotential rate and in turn your outlook changes.

Money is lovely, it buys toys n stuff but its a balance that I have found changes over your lifetime.
This man speaks the truth.
 
I've worked crap jobs and been miserable... I'd much sooner get paid less and enjoy life.

Come on... You spend 40+ hours a week at work. You may as well do something you enjoy.
 
One should not forget that someones 'money' is another persons small change.
We'd be talking big cash - let's say the salary would be pushing the 7 figure barrier after ten years.
As the money grows more often than not the love falls off at an expotential rate and in turn your outlook changes.
But would 10yrs be a short enough time so that these things could be "handled", for want of a better word?
 
It is not a black and white answer I am afraid, everyone is different, everyone has a different outlook. Your answer can not be answered with a simple yes or no, simply a "it depends"
 
job that pays well, would allow me to change a lot of the things i'm not happy with and cant afford to do anything about and would also let me live the life i want after im done. for me money can buy happiness, plus i like sleeping so even if i had a job i loved i still wouldn't want to wake up in the morning :D.
 
Well I've just left a job earning 10k more than my age to travel the world, and I don't expect to earn anywhere near that much once I've finished.
Why? The money wasn't making me happy, ergo it was not worth it!
 
A job that i love, but it should aways pay you a fair wage.

now I'm lucky, i love my job, and i get payed very well for may age, i would happily do my job for a few grand less.
 
Definitely a job I love. As long as I earn enough to get by (which I'm fairly sure I will) then I will be happy. I'd also want my fiancé to do what he loves (and therefore be happy). :)
 
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