Oh please and your telling me that the Fed wouldn't tell the government to push an issue through to benefit them or there benefactors, otherwise they'll call in all debts?
No. That is an entirely fanciful scenario, typical of someone who doesn't have the remotest clue about the subject.
Firstly, the Federal reserve is not an entirely private organisation; it is partly owned and managed by the government (which is represented on the Fed's Board of Governors, who are in turn appointed by the President).
Secondly, its remit and limitations are defined and enforced by government legislation (see the Federal Reserve Act and subsequent amendments).
Thirdly, the Federal Reserve would never "tell the government to push an issue through to benefit them or there benefactors, otherwise they'll call in all debts", because (a) this threat, if acted upon, would single-handedly destroy the entire US economy and the Federal Reserve with it, (b) the Federal Reserve has no power to make such a threat (let alone carry it out), and (c) even if it did make such a threat (in the wild dreamworld inhabited by conspiracy theorists), the government members on the Fed's Board of Governors would veto it.
Examples could be multiplied.
I should get a grip?
Yes. With both hands, preferably.
EDIT: Oh and if you find the fact that a privately owned company is funding the entire american government normal, then you need a reality check mate.
What's needed here is a short lesson on modern economic theory and practice, terminating with a sharp blow to the face with a wet haddock.