Aint life grand

Tell me if I'm wrong but from what I've read it sounds like your gf was great to be with but not once in this thread have you used the word "love". Rather you keep saying things like "best yet" and "better than the others". "Best yet" is not a reason to stay with someone. Too many people stay in average relationship because they use cold logic to weight up the pros and cons and think they are probably best off sticking with what they have. This is not being honest with yourself or the other person.

Obviously you have grown close and feel an attachment to her but the 60miles distance was always going to be difficult to maintain. So if you weren't in love with her then really you have gained more than you have lost from ending the relationship because now your able to go and find someone truly special.

Sorry to hear about your dog and good luck with your placement :)
 
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Skyfall said:
life sucks!
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Not really, no. It has downs, but the ups always make up for it. :)

Kris, I need to save my money, else I would go and blow loads of it on camera gear...instead I'll be spending it on a car in a few months. :)

I have no console :(

Although James is tempted to buy a 360. :D


InvG
 
That sucks, had similiar too. No worries, head up and go find someone that will stick by you for life. Good luck. :);)
 
MookJong said:
Tell me if I'm wrong but from what I've read it sounds like your gf was great to be with but not once in this thread have you used the word "love".
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Yeah, I'm not one to go spamming the word love everywhere, I do however love her and she did love me, but her love for me has turned into the female love of a someone as a friend rather than what I'd call love, which is for a partner.

The distance between us (literal) will be growing when I'm on placement anyway, so in a way it is good (although I'll have money money when on placement so would have been able to visit her more often).

InvG
 
I've had a cart load of 'we need to talk's.

Just be sensationalist and grand, undermine whatever it is she thinks she has to talk about. :p

Rock solid advice this is! :D
 
Phæte said:
So, was there a reason for the break-up other than distance?
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She's been slowly losing interest in me. As in she loved me, and loved being with me and all that, but over the last month or two she's been getting irritated with me and only really loves me as a friend.

I did notice this and asked her if she was ok a couple of weeks back, and she said she was fine, but lately she has been forgetting about me (meaning to call, and then forgetting completely) and is completely concentrating on her career.

I can see that she'd be unhappy if I was to try and make her stay with me, so I'd rather we ended like this than in a fit of arguments etc. Obviously though I'm not happy about it, but there is nothing I can do.

It's strange, having seen her for pretty much every weekend for the last 18 months, and now knowing I won't see her again.

MookJong said:
Why prolonge the agony?
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Exactly why we've split, because I don't want her to be unhappy whilst being with me, and she doesn't want to hurt me more by doing it further down the line and most likely in an argument (we never argue, not properly anyway, but lately apparently I've been really getting on her nerves and she's wanted to shout at me etc. :().

InvG
 
dude that sucks glad to hear ** moving on tho. Nothing like being positive and keeping the ball rolling.

Aero
 
I'll keep ma balls a'rollin'. ;) :p

In a way I've given up caring, as the way I see it is simply, these things happen and there is no point in fussing over it and letting it hold me back.

I do still love her and do miss her, but in time I know this'll pass in time so it's fine. Plus I know there are loads of lovely other single ladies out there. :D

The main thing I actually regret though from my end of week is not saying goodbye to my dog. :( But again, no point in hanging on it, she'll be in less pain and won't experience any more if she is not around. :)

InvG
 
WHAT ARE YOU SAD ABOUT?

You managed to remove your self from the disease the is ONE-GINA!!!

Welcome to the club brutha :cool:

Sorry about your dog btw, dogs are the best.

German Shepherd for win

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You mean you no longer have that rather tasty girl you had in your sig? Damn....can I have her for a bit? :p

I'm not sad about it any more. She is a brilliant girl in all respects ;), but I'm sure I shall find someone that'll want to stay with me longer. :)

and RIP Jet...

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Not actually sure when mum is getting get put down, or if she has already though.

InvG
 
I think I picked up everything from the threat so firstly 1) Sorry to hear mate, but the predictable and necessary 2) You're only young and have a long way to do and many new people to meet!

A tasty 3) Where did you get your placement? My placement was great I've never enjoyed myself so much you will actually have money to go out and do the things you want! You may find yourself meeting different kind of women who know what they want if you go out on nights out with your work colleagues!

and 4) :-( about your pet :(
 
If you want your dog, and my dog could *you know* and then you can have mini jets.

But these jets will be faster, stronger, bigger because my dog is a HAUS.
 
I should be at Surrey Uni, doing what I love doing, which is playing with computers and networking...only downside is I have to do some tech support for the IT illiterate that work there. :(

I'll be on £14.5k which is ok, but I'll be living in Reading most likely, which will eat up money for the first few months in train fares...but I'll get a car as soon as I can afford a decent one, which should drop my costs and make life easier. :)

I have been offered a place by someone I know, but he's being so slow in getting any information to me that I'm not exactly holding out on that one and so have told Surrey yes, but it's not final as I have no paperwork, so I can still go to my mate's placement if he gets me the paperwork soonish (he's offering a much better deal). :)

As for being young, yup I sure am, although I seem to be much more mature than most people I know, and have a whole heapload more common sense than them too...so finding sensible women isn't too hard...plus I'm not ugly. :p

InvG
 
Killa_ken said:
If you want your dog, and my dog could *you know* and then you can have mini jets.

But these jets will be faster, stronger, bigger because my dog is a HAUS.
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Haha...brilliant. :D

She has so many problems the poor girl that breeding her is a bad idea. :)

In a couple years though, when I'm out of uni and have my own place (with/without a woman) I AM getting a dog, whether the female (if there is one) likes it or not. :D

InvG
 
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