Back with an EX

[Neil79]

Has anyone here gone back with an ex after a break up and its worked out better than before? or do you follow the lines of a break up is a break up , move on!

 

[Gilly]

Gone back, never worked.

Leave the past in the past.

Depends how long has gone, of course.

 

[antijoke]

Only use her for sex when times are lean.

j/k

 

[knip]

Got back with an ex for a few weeks before Christmas.
Didnt work, he was still an arse 12 years later.

 

[Neil79]

Well its early days for me , i basically broke up with my girl 3 days ago... She was stressed at work and took it out on me right after what was a perfect weekend. Nearly every week she'd get the ump and talk down to me and blame it on work. She was also a smoker and i was not. She said we should work through it and we agreed but that weekend enough was enough.

The good times where great i was really happy and the sex was good too but the bad times ^ . Now i kinda regret what i did , i said to her " i need a break in the relationship i need some time to think ".

I feel like i still need to talk to her , she was devistated when we broke up i mean really badly to the point of collapsing

 

[ScarySquirrel]

Has never worked in the past. Although the girl I just broke up with I could see me spending the rest of my life with if she was a little more trusting and less IN MY FACE. Unfortunately I don't think that will happen.

 

[FrostedNipple]

Time to take your right hand out your arse.

 

[Solari]

Make up sex can be good, but I think that all you're really doing with the relatonship is papering over the cracks. Most of the time there's a solid reason behind the split and it'll never be the same again.

 

[Bald-Eagle22]

Only went back to take advanrtage of a little " Menage a trois " that was promised to me during the origonal relationship .

It was brill.

 

[Greebo]

Broke up 5 years ago for 4 months and back together and still with her.

So it can work.

It forced us to sort out what was wrong in our relationship (we had been together for 9 years.

 

[Neil79]

Broke up 5 years ago for 4 months and back together and still with her.

So it can work.

It forced us to sort out what was wrong in our relationship (we had been together for 9 years.

Well its only been 3 days for me , probably too soon to make any decision on coming back to an EX. Still hurts though

 

[Westie]

broke up with my ex 6 months ago, we broke up 2-3 times in space of 9 months, i wish i never got back with her after the first time!

if its ment to be its ment to be!

 

[LiE]

Don't do it!... oh damn too late..

 

[Ripper]

As interesting as it'd be to try again with my ex, I don't think it'd ever work. There'd be so many time where i'd need to bite my lip or be worried about being myself, if it wasn't good enough before it wouldn't be good enough now.

 

[Phoebs]

broke up for about 3 months 3 years ago. been brilliant ever since. 5 year anniversary next week (we ignore the break up now)

 

[Bengaboy]

Word of advice - never destroy her on facebook!

 

[Beren]

Went back... all seemed awesome for a few months, then it died even more horribly than before!

 

[Nix]

Haven't yet, but it does depend on the person. In principle though, I would never go back.

 

[purexxevil]

Yea, got back with an Ex, and things got far better than they even were the first time round.
For the first couple of months, then there was a steady decline back to what had made us break up in the first place.

If they're not right for you once, how can a few months apart change anything?
As has already been said though, i suppose it depends on the person.

 

[LoadsaMoney]

Make up sex can be good, but I think that all you're really doing with the relatonship is papering over the cracks. Most of the time there's a solid reason behind the split and it'll never be the same again.

Its not papering over he wants to do with the cracks.

If it didn't work the first time, then i doubt it would work the second, so hammer her and move on.