It is perhaps pushing my luck somewhat, but I'd love to see a poll on this, but two polls in two days 
So as per title, what do you value above all other attributes in the opposite sex or in a potential/current partner?
If a poll is allowed then I'll edit in a list later
I'll get the ball rolling:
Intelligence, for me is the thing I value above anything else in a partner and in my current gf.
Having a brain gap would be for me undesirable and I always seek an equal or better in this department as I like learning and tend to enjoy intellectual pursuits such as reading or political debate etc etc and I enjoy conversation about these things sometimes and would be sad if I couldn't share some of my interests and passions with a partner. I'm not making this up either, and she was surprised when I said this to her a while back as most guys say hot body or blue eyes or something tangible
So OcUK, what about you?

So as per title, what do you value above all other attributes in the opposite sex or in a potential/current partner?
If a poll is allowed then I'll edit in a list later

I'll get the ball rolling:
Intelligence, for me is the thing I value above anything else in a partner and in my current gf.
Having a brain gap would be for me undesirable and I always seek an equal or better in this department as I like learning and tend to enjoy intellectual pursuits such as reading or political debate etc etc and I enjoy conversation about these things sometimes and would be sad if I couldn't share some of my interests and passions with a partner. I'm not making this up either, and she was surprised when I said this to her a while back as most guys say hot body or blue eyes or something tangible

So OcUK, what about you?
