To be fair, women check men out as well. Whats the problem?

Looks are more important than personality.
Well thats a given isn't it; if you're looking at someone you don't know.But then in all honesty you've just mirrored what a lot of women have said to me in real life. Looks are more important than personality.
They certainly are when all you're doing is checking someone out that you don't know. It is difficult to guage personality before getting to know someone...

Well thats a given isn't it; if you're looking at someone you don't know.
Not that difficult though.
I'd say in general a prettier person would have had a slightly easier ride in life than a dog ugly one.
Keeping to the pub/club analogy then the prettier one would have adorations on them whereas an average one wouldn't. It all plays into the formers' confidence because of how people treat them. Not the best example, but how much attention and e.g. drinks would people buy a very hot woman?
Do you catch my drift?


Firstly, I never ever use the word 'fit'. I may live in Essex, but still...
Secondly, why would anyone like having an old ugly person checking them out?![]()


Some women don't even know what they've got and therefore find it awkward and invasive to be "checked out".

That's the girl you want![]()

I think people find it flattering if/when they have an attraction for the person that is checking them out.

Firstly, I never ever use the word 'fit'. I may live in Essex, but still...
Secondly, why would anyone like having an old ugly person checking them out?![]()
No, I'm afraid not. What do you mean by adorations?
I have no idea what you're driving at. You want an average/below average/dog ugly girl and would check them out because they wouldn't have 'adorations' on them?
It isn't just difficult either, I understated it, it is impossible.
Bingo. This is pretty much what I said, worded differently. I don't know why I got stick for something that is essentially fact![]()
.It's just the way you come across I'm sorry, obviously you don't want an oldie leering over you checking you out but I think it goes further than that, I just think your the type of girl that gets off on a hunk giving you the eye but will turn her nose up in disgust if someone even accidentally gives you the eye that you don't find attractive, from reading your posts (past and present) that is how you come across, maybe I'm wrong but I doubt it tbh, if there is one thing I'm usually good at it is characterising someone from the smallest pieces of information.
Bingo. This is pretty much what I said, worded differently. I don't know why I got stick for something that is essentially fact![]()