GIRLS SUCK

riddler · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:15

Seriously I've been holding back on this thread for a while but now the time has come...Stop reading now if you despise relationship threads.

Been with her for 6 years, I'm now 21 my first real relationship. We had a truly little perfect thing going on and thought we cared about each other more than ever. Every time things seemed to slip a little we'd make a good gesture and spice things up ****ing perfect I thought.

Now personality wise she was never the biggest talker or the funniest person I've met but she's kind....so damn ****ing kind.

She turns up @ my house a week ago on Sunday to tell me about her not being happy....

"What you're not happy? Damn what the hell you know I've had allot of work on. All you needed to do was tell me...(I then tell her how much she ****ing means to me for 15 minutes)"

"It's not that...someone else...."

She then tells me about her seeing a guy and having gone out with him a few times over the last couple of weeks.

"GET OUT, FILTHY DIRTY CHEAT LEAVE"

She refuses to leave and I calm down...Decided to go for a walk and we talk allot and I tell her how good our relationship actually is and she ****ing agrees.

We talk and talk and I then gave her the ultimatum..."do you wanna make this work or not?"

"Theirs something else..."

Turns out she also gave him a h****** on one of their dates. So I just ****ing run, ran like the wind stayed at a mates heart to heart all night. Great guy.

All week I've been trying to get over her going out keeping busy doing the things I should be doing not shrivelled up in a ball crying.

Yesterday I take the final step I suppose in removing her from my Facebook, couldn't stand seeing her face every day killing me inside.

Just received a phone call tell me she's announced her new relationship and my heart has ****ing gone, the powers of Facebook really are horrible.

Over and out OcUK.

Welshy · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:18

Sorry to hear mate

Time is a healer, give it a few months and you won't give a toss anymore.

DB_SamX · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:18

Ouch. 6 years! It's going to take longer than a few months...

Edit: Reminds me of this, if you are feeling equally cruel: http://www.snopes.com/embarrass/email/breakup.asp

Sankari · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:18

Dude, that's a sickening situation and I really feel for you.

Vita · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:19

Damn dude. You've done the right thing, I know it must have been hard, but you got out of something which could have caused you more problems then you think. You should just take it easy, and keep yourself happy.

X-BEN · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:20

ya better off without her i would say mate!

4p · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:21

I'd go pure sick.

That's the worst I've heard mate ;/

titchard · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:22

Sounds like a total downer mate but think of it as a positive thing - at least now its over and you can move on to some who will not do crappy things to you.

And in the meantime you can go get rowdy with your buddies in the pub! I always found in times of great need them few drinks in the pub show you who really loves you in the world (Sounds totally gay I know, but you guys get what I mean).

Rich

lixxus · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:22

morale of the story, women are the true playaz

but seriously, couldnt you tell she was the local football

Yucca · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:22

Go out on the pull my friend, head held high!

Make you feel good and you'l soon relise that although being in a loving relationship is great, so is the chase!

Ricochet J · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:22

If it's of any comfort, her relationship with the new guy will not last.

-Exodus- · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:23

sorry dude, but better now than in 10 years time if yous got married or anything. you're still young like, can't give any advice i've never been in a relationship more than 6 months but all the best dude.

4p · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:23

Mind you, plenty more fish in the sea

A quote from Forgetting Sarah Marshall:

"Use your penis, use your penis (forgot name)"

"Shag everything and anything"

"Use a condom"

Sound advice.

Tweek_1984 · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:24

6 years is a long time to eff you over like that. Harsh. You're still young though. At least you weren't married. If she's willing to do that then she wasn't worth it pal.

Rotty · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:24

seeing as you have had a rough time I will just edit the swearing instead of what should be a mandatory suspension

oh and idiotic stuff from others, along lines of what I have just deleted will not be tolerated

nikebee · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:24

Jees, sorry to hear that bud...

Nothing you can do or anything we can say to help you out - you've just got to keep busy and move on.

Go out and have a few drinks with some mates this weekend and maybe you'll meet a few girls.

You're only 21 and you've got your whole life ahead mate

Dunks · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:24

First thread in while like this where I've actually felt any compassion

. Thought of that happening makes me feel sick

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4T5 · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:25

Whoops best delete that then.

Cybermyk · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:25

Get yourself out with your mates and enjoy your life. She's not worth the worry.

riddler · 26 Aug 2009 at 00:25

Damn right, I know all this. It's just the manner it's happened in. She's moving on so fast introducing this guy to all the family and it's literally been a week.