GIRLS SUCK

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Dark_Angel said:
:confused: You don't see a problem with the girl cheating on him, then admitting she did something sexual with another guy, and then him leaving because a girlfriend of a number of years cheated on him??:confused:

;) at your ninja edit.
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slightly mis-read but still not worth crying about tbh, although i cant really imagine what it feels like to care about other people...?
 
platinum87 said:
slightly mis-read but still not worth crying about tbh, although i cant really imagine what it feels like to care about other people...?
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O.M.G. Seriously. You got better for a while, now it is back to LOLplatinum87 again.

Allow me to say what you want to hear "Wow. this guy must have no emotions, I imagine he is so scary when he walks small children cower behind their mothers, he doesn't fear anyone."

For the love of god - you actually made me face palm in *real* life.

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Sorry if this sounds a little harsh mods, please feel free to delete / edit my comment as necessary.

*edit 2* apparently I couldn't spell palm.
 
I don't normally reply to threads like this, but something similar happened to me before so I feel I have to sympathise..

First bit of advice from me - DON'T GET DRUNK. I went on a binge for weeks, nearly lost my job, spent a fortune and nearly lost my mates with my anger. At the end of the day, she's not worth it.
If you're going to rebound, pick someone you don't know. Makes it easier when you break their heart.
Remember, you have to have your heart broken once in life. It'll make sense ;)
If you know her email logins, facebook etc - GTFO. Make her know to change them so you aren't tempted to stalk her.
Go out and do all the stuff you couldn't when you were together :)
Don't go looking for a replacement.

Good luck dude!
 
Can I just say that men suck too.

We'd been together 3 years, I'd left my home/job/family/friends back in Bucks to move to Sussex to be with him, bought a house together, supported him in his quest to be a copper (which he now is). One Friday afternoon he announces he isn't happy.

I'm typing this from "our" house, 9 weeks on, in bits while he is out with his new girlfriend (god knows how long they have been together). He treats me like dirt when we are in the house together and is supposedly trying to get money for me to buy me out which just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. He wont agree to sell the house, he wont tell me anything about progress on gaining the money so I'm trapped in limbo. I can't move forward and there is no going back and so I spend most of my time trying to escape my life.

Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.

So again....I say men suck.

Make the most of your friends because without mine I really would have been lost. I find it hard to offer any further advice, just know that you aren't the only mug out there.
 
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Minxy said:
Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.
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that's got to be the sickest thing i've heard, I'm sorry that you've had to deal with a ***** like that :(
 
Minxy said:
Can I just say that men suck too.

We'd been together 3 years, I'd left my home/job/family/friends back in Bucks to move to Sussex to be with him, bought a house together, supported him in his quest to be a copper (which he now is). One Friday afternoon he announces he isn't happy.

I'm typing this from "our" house, 9 weeks on, in bits while he is out with his new girlfriend (god knows how long they have been together). He treats me like dirt when we are in the house together and is supposedly trying to get money for me to buy me out which just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. He wont agree to sell the house, he wont tell me anything about progress on gaining the money so I'm trapped in limbo. I can't move forward and there is no going back and so I spend most of my time trying to escape my life.

Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.

So again....I say men suck.

Make the most of your friends because without mine I really would have been lost. I find it hard to offer any further advice, just know that you aren't the only mug out there.
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Wow :(

Sorry to hear that :(
 
Minxy said:
Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.
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That must be really tough. :( Is there no way you can get out of that situation by going back to Bucks and leaving him to it?
 
Minxy said:
Can I just say that men suck too.

We'd been together 3 years, I'd left my home/job/family/friends back in Bucks to move to Sussex to be with him, bought a house together, supported him in his quest to be a copper (which he now is). One Friday afternoon he announces he isn't happy.

I'm typing this from "our" house, 9 weeks on, in bits while he is out with his new girlfriend (god knows how long they have been together). He treats me like dirt when we are in the house together and is supposedly trying to get money for me to buy me out which just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. He wont agree to sell the house, he wont tell me anything about progress on gaining the money so I'm trapped in limbo. I can't move forward and there is no going back and so I spend most of my time trying to escape my life.

Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.

So again....I say men suck.

Make the most of your friends because without mine I really would have been lost. I find it hard to offer any further advice, just know that you aren't the only mug out there.
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Ouch... wasn't quite so bad for me, but a bit similar, being the nice guy I am (:p) I let her stay in "our" house for a month while she found somewhere new. Hearing her up at all hours of the night chatting to him online was pretty damn painful.

Edit: Possibly sounded like I was trivialising your situation. Not by any means at all, I managed for about 2 weeks before I had to leave, otherwise I probably would have ended up ploughing my car into a wall. Can't imagine being able survive it for 2 months, I really hope you manage to get yourself out of there and on the road to the happiness you deserve soon. Some people have absolutely no respect. =/
 
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Minxy said:
Can I just say that men suck too.

We'd been together 3 years, I'd left my home/job/family/friends back in Bucks to move to Sussex to be with him, bought a house together, supported him in his quest to be a copper (which he now is). One Friday afternoon he announces he isn't happy.

I'm typing this from "our" house, 9 weeks on, in bits while he is out with his new girlfriend (god knows how long they have been together). He treats me like dirt when we are in the house together and is supposedly trying to get money for me to buy me out which just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. He wont agree to sell the house, he wont tell me anything about progress on gaining the money so I'm trapped in limbo. I can't move forward and there is no going back and so I spend most of my time trying to escape my life.

Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.

So again....I say men suck.

Make the most of your friends because without mine I really would have been lost. I find it hard to offer any further advice, just know that you aren't the only mug out there.
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Haggisman said:
Ouch... wasn't quite so bad for me, but a bit similar, being the nice guy I am (:p) I let her stay in "our" house for a month while she found somewhere new. Hearing her up at all hours of the night chatting to him online was pretty damn painful.
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:eek:

I'm sorry to sound all platinum87-esque, but she'd have been straight out of the door.
 
Minxy said:
Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.
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Oh, oh dude that must be amazingly awful. I'm trying to imagine how that feels and I don't think I'm even close.

Why don't you move back home and get the hell out of there? Surely there must be some way you can get out?
 
Minxy said:
Can I just say that men suck too.

We'd been together 3 years, I'd left my home/job/family/friends back in Bucks to move to Sussex to be with him, bought a house together, supported him in his quest to be a copper (which he now is). One Friday afternoon he announces he isn't happy.

I'm typing this from "our" house, 9 weeks on, in bits while he is out with his new girlfriend (god knows how long they have been together). He treats me like dirt when we are in the house together and is supposedly trying to get money for me to buy me out which just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. He wont agree to sell the house, he wont tell me anything about progress on gaining the money so I'm trapped in limbo. I can't move forward and there is no going back and so I spend most of my time trying to escape my life.

Watching the man you love go through the preening routine to take someone else out while you stay home is the most messed up feeling in the world.

So again....I say men suck.

Make the most of your friends because without mine I really would have been lost. I find it hard to offer any further advice, just know that you aren't the only mug out there.
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Apply to the courts for an order for sale, they will force him to sell the house.
 
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