Ex-girlfriends..

Facebook friends with both my recent ex's, first one lasted just over two years, she started to cheese me off wouldn't goto new years with me so i though Do not swear not matter how you disguise it! it one thing led to another and i ended up sleeping round another girls house, which didn't go down well.......

Other one was a few months after a nice holiday in france together.

Only just started to speak to the first again, which is fine by me, talk on and off to the second, no reason not to be friends.
 
It really depends on the circumstances involving the breakup. If it was due to financial, or distance, or obligations (Uni, family etc), then why not? If it is, however, due to an emotional reason (you don't get along, she's a whore, you're a whore, etcetcetc) then, take caution - it is possible to move past such things, but they take much more effort.

So, yes, but take caution.
 
You broke up with them for a reason, if this happened a long time ago then it's possible that over time you have bother changed, or your circumstances have changed , etc. If this is the case then it could work again if you got back together. Time changes people, these changes can work in your favour as a couple, or not.

Just remember you broke up for a reason and it's likely that the same thing will happen again.
 
What are you lot on about. :confused:
Of course I am freinds with my X girlfs, Especially the ones that rode well. Over the years I get regular phone calls off X's as they know me & know if I am single then they can pop round for some riding.
I have Never been able to understand somebody who can go to bed with someone one minute & then not even speak to them after, How rude & Why would I cut my nose off to spite my face. Wise up Dudes there are many a free ride with the X's. :cool:
 
i cant comment on ex girlfriends as i only date men lol but i got back together with an ex and at first it was much better than the first time but then he went back to his old ways and we split again. We had better times the second time around but now I'd never go back to an ex.

Not unless the only reason we split was purely something like they moved away etc. Otherwise normally there is a good reason why it didn't workout.

Was your first ex also your first love? As some people say you never forget your first love. Sometimes i used to think if things ended differently with mine would it work a second time but too much has happened and I realise now we are too different.
 
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I will echo Andelusions post.

The 2 most recent ex girlfriends (the most recent being just this last week) I've ended and got back and then ended again. Im now sure that it's probably just the sucky feeling of lonliness or whatever, but at the time it always feels like Ive done the wrong thing. Hence the getting back together.

The most annoying thing is the fact that I've really hurt my last gf because of this. I straight out told her that I didnt love her the first time we split. Then a week later I was feeling regretful and we got back together. Went on holiday and few weeks later I started to doubt again. Fast forward to sunday and it's all over.

Properly horrible situation because I really like the girl and feel like I regret it now, but I know deep down that I doubted it for a reason, whether or not I'm concious of it.

So like mentioned, if you feel that enough time has passed for you two as people to have changed, then it may work. But in the end, relationships shouldn't really be that difficult that you have to analyse to the nth degree why or why not you want to be with someone. It should just be.

Good luck whatever you do, pal :D
 
Just ignore the Mental ones & go ride the semi normal ones, No such thing as a Non Mental woman of course they are just on different levels of Mental.
 
What pee's me off about them is when they randomly crop up in your dreams! Grrr, I was at the bus stop the other night and guess who was there. Needless to say, I pretended to not see her, but she decided to start pestering me. Annoying! Get the hell out of my head woman!
 
Tbh I think about ex's sometimes, mainly remembering the good things. All you have to do is remember the reasons you left them and it's all good.
 
I get on alright with most of my "less mental" ex's :)

Still good friends with a couple, don't understand why some people automatically refuse to have anything to do with them (unless they were mentalists)
 
Tummy said:
I get on alright with most of my "less mental" ex's :)

Still good friends with a couple, don't understand why some people automatically refuse to have anything to do with them (unless they were mentalists)
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For my now ex, she doesnt want any contact because I think it would be too hard to see me. Thats how much she loved me. Sucks but there you go :P
 
Firestar_3x said:
Facebook friends with both my recent ex's,
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Facebook friends? Do people not talk face to face anymore?

I say this purely because I didn't get around to saying it in the other cheating girlfriend thread. Some forum member split up with his mrs of 7 years(iirc) and his closing statement of the opening post was something like 'that's it, I finally deleted her off Facebook.'

How utterly sad yet hilarious it was.
 
shifty_uk said:
Facebook friends? Do people not talk face to face anymore?

I say this purely because I didn't get around to saying it in the other cheating girlfriend thread. Some forum member split up with his mrs of 7 years(iirc) and his closing statement of the opening post was something like 'that's it, I finally deleted her off Facebook.'

How utterly sad yet hilarious it was.
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who needs to talk when you can stalk them over the internet :p:rolleyes:
 
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